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44 Santa Monica, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
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Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I'm looking for a special woman, who will be my best friend & soulmate, has values & morals, is loyal & honest, communicates well, loves unconditionally and is seeking a sincere man to build a lasting relationship with. My hope is to find a beautiful woman, who's much smarter than me and doesn't play games. :-) I know, it's a tall order in L.A., but there's always hope!

It has been said, that I'm very grounded, but some assume I'm a player (couldn't be farther from the truth). When you assume, 'you make an ass out of you and me', so the saying goes. Once people actually get to know me, they seem to discover that they're simply being insecure. There's plenty of guys out there, who talk a good game and tell women what they want to hear, but more often than not they're usually not what they appear to be. I don't compete with that. Not sure why, but so many women complain about insincere men, yet seem to always go that direction. I'm a one woman kind of guy. I also avoid female players. If you've dated everyone, I'm probably not your guy. I'm truly looking for a woman who has values & morals and doesn't have a closet full of skeletons & bad decisions. Sorry if I've excluded 90% of the women out there, but I'm truly looking for a special lady. Loyalty & commitment are very important to me and I hope to find that mindset in a partner. I'd rather be single & free, than in meaningless relationships of convenience. If you're the 'old fashioned' type, expecting pursuit, I'm probably a challenge to that expectation. Many guys chase women and choices are plentiful, but seeing through the B.S. takes skill. There's many lovely ladies out there, but I'm just looking for one. I know what I want (& don't want). If there's attraction, I'll feel it. It's in the eyes. :-) If I email, but don't receive a reply, don't worry, it's not in my nature to harass. Don't expect the typical here. I'm not your typical guy. My approach is very unique; I don't have one. :-)
Born & raised in California. Put myself through Business School. I work hard, have goals and aspirations - just need the right partner. I enjoy hiking in the Palisades, yoga, swimming in the ocean, going to the gym, doing the stairs, riding my bike, camping, lounging at the pool, spending time with friends & family, trying new things, treasure hunting, walking on the beach, fishing, traveling...
What I’m doing with my life
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Staying fit, learning every day, working hard, seeking happiness...
I’m really good at
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Making things better and taking it to the next level of excellence. I have a talent for seeing potential in anything. There's always room for improvement! I love a challenge - tell me I can't do something and I'll prove you wrong (most times)! People tell me I'm very eccentric and possess many unique talents, lost in today's world. My grandfather taught me how to make things and fix anything, which has given me independence and a great ability to adapt to any situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, personality & presence. I take good care of myself (eating healthy, exercising, etc.). I take pride in my appearance, but I'm not vain. People often tell me I've not changed a bit and still look the same as I did ten years ago.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Celestine Prophecy was an interesting book, but so was Tom Sawyer & Huckleberry Finn & many others.

Love the reinvented 007 franchise & the old ones, Braveheart, 40 Year Old Virgin, Wedding Crashers, anything sci-fi and even chick-flicks like P.S. I Love You, Return to Me...

Boccelli, Depeche Mode, Run DMC, Gnarls Barkley, Frank Sinatra, Bob Marley... How can you list all good music - even if only one song moves you?

Any food that's relatively healthy and even sometimes not.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My family
2) Tooth brush
3) Leave-in conditioner
4) My car
5) My bike
6) $$ to live
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Family, creative pursuits, future goals, work, my hobbies, my soulmate...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Glad the weekend is finally here, so I can unwind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love god's gift to mankind - the female form and all her capacities to nurture us (men) to become better beings through love & compassion!! Not very wild, but a true statement.
You should message me if
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We have much in common & you think we might have chemistry!