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36 Footscray, Australia Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 12:44am
Heteroflexible, Homoflexible, Queer
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Awkward but sociable recovering punk with passions for pop culture, solidarity, and BDSM. Hates capitalism, loves karaoke.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I fight landlords for a living. After work I train bjj and other grappling sports. Spend large amounts of whatever free time is left at the Astor, ACMI, film festivals, and other somewhat pretentious cultural and political events.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing, stories, dressing up, making out, making zines, overthinking things, talking about art and politics, crushing real estate agents like bugs beneath my heel.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Cute front-teeth gap and/or loud laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't read as much as I'd like and I am already flailing in my resolution to finish In Search Of Lost Time in 2015. I like contemporary poetry, political theory (feminist, communist, queer, etc), lit canon classics, crime fiction, and biographies.

So many movies! Recent favourites included We Are The Best, Two Days One Night, Manakamana, and, uh, Step Up All In. All-time: All About Eve, Singing in the Rain, The Bitter Tears of Petra Von Kant, Female Trouble; Varda, Tarkovsky, Warhol, Hitchcock.

Musically, well, obviously Beyonce. 90s rap, contemporary r&b, country, pop. If you don't love Taylor Swift I honestly think you are probably a misogynist.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good coffee
My bike
Old movies
A good beat you can dance to
The possibility of change
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things I should be doing, gentrification, aesthetics, outfits, wrestling moves, full communism.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a tattoo of a photocopier on my butt. That isn't really so private though.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
First, some dealbreakers:

- your profile includes a Myers-Briggs personality type
- you are looking for 'straight-acting', 'masc', etc
- you have listed a bunch of authors you love and they're all white men
- okcupid thinks you are 'less kinky'
- you're racist, sexist, any other -ist or -phobe, or generally right-wing
- you have a profile pic taken at a horse race.

You should message me if:

- you want to do something fun
- you are comfortable with nonmonogamy and understand I have a partner
- you have radical politics and a sense of humour
- you like to smile and/or laugh during sex
- your idea of a good first date isn't just a beer at Sircuit, or (who am I kidding?) your idea of a good first date is just a beer at Sircuit
- you're at least potentially interested in some sort of sexual friendship, like not a monogamous relationship but not 'just' a hook-up either (i.e. you are at least willing to have a conversation).