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35 M Melbourne, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:35am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
I was once fairly accurately described as 'shameless' on national television for a karaoke version of James Brown's Sex Machine.
What I’m doing with my life
Working in the community sector and trying not to be too much of a cop about it. Training BJJ, a kind of competitive wrestling. Riding my bike, seeing a lot of movies and artsy performance events, and doing some political organising/volunteer-type stuff. Convincing myself to try new things esp camping, the outdoors, leaving my inner city comfort zone. Writing. Drinking coffee.
I’m really good at
Dancing, stories, dressing up, thinking things through and/or overthinking things, talking about art and politics.

I type fast.

I hate this question.
The first things people usually notice about me
Cute front-teeth gap and/or loud laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I recently enjoyed Ali Libegott's Cha-Ching, Imogen Binnie's Nevada, and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's Americanah. I admit I read the latter because the author appeared on Beyonce's record. Generally I like contemporary poetry, political theory (feminist, communist, queer, etc), lit canon classics, crime fiction, and biographies.

Similarly pretentious taste in movies - 2013 favourites included Closed Curtains, Museum Hours, Gimme The Loot, The Past. I love Euro art flicks, 60s NY underground film, documentaries, Hollywood classics.

Musically, well, obviously Beyonce. Prince, Jessie Ware, James Brown. And if you don't love Taylor Swift I honestly think you are probably a misogynist.
The six things I could never do without
Good coffee
My bike
Old movies
A good beat you can dance to
The possibility of change
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things I should be doing, gentrification, aesthetics, outfits, wrestling moves.

The politics of ageing and intergenerational solidarities.

Whether it is finally time to upgrade from a flip phone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a tattoo of a photocopier on my butt. That isn't really so private though.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 27–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You hate capitalism and love karaoke.

Really, I am interested in sexual friendships and not looking either for monogamous relationships or completely unengaged sex. I have pretty broad definitions of both 'sexual' and 'friendships', though.

I'm particularly but not exclusively interested in meeting people who are kinky and/or queer. BDSM is a big part of my life/sexuality, you don't have to be into that for us to hang out but shouldn't be judgmental about it.

Guys: if you are looking for masc, straight-acting, etc, we are probably not going to get along.