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35 M Melbourne, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:33am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
I dig this quote:

'If there is one thing that marks us as queer, a category that is somehow different, although not altogether distinct, from the heterosexual, then it is undoubtedly our relationships to the body, particularly the expansive ways in which we utilize and combine vaginas, penises, breasts, buttocks, hands, arms, feet, stomachs, mouths and tongues in our expressions not only of intimacy, love, and lust but also and importantly shame, contempt, despair, and hate.' - Robert Reid-Pharr
What I’m doing with my life
I fight landlords for a living, which I love. After work I mostly fight other people but only in fully consensual fashion, i.e. training bjj, judo, wrestling, and once in a while some kickboxing. I enjoy a lot of art films and performance and am also passionate about pop culture. I hate capitalism and love karaoke. My new years resolution was to be more woo in 2014 so I am slowly and awkwardly becoming the gay witch of my dreams.
I’m really good at
Dancing, stories, dressing up, making out, making zines, overthinking things, talking about art and politics.
The first things people usually notice about me
Cute front-teeth gap and/or loud laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Recently enjoyed Ali Libegott's Cha-Ching, Imogen Binnie's Nevada, and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's Americanah. I like contemporary poetry, political theory (feminist, communist, queer, etc), lit canon classics, crime fiction, and biographies.

Similarly pretentious taste in movies - recent favourites included Closed Curtains, Museum Hours, Gimme The Loot, The Past. I love Euro art flicks, 60s NY underground film, documentaries, Hollywood classics.

Musically, well, obviously Beyonce. Lots of r&b and stoner doom metal. And if you don't love Taylor Swift I honestly think you are probably a misogynist.

My favourite food is probably coffee, followed by beer. I am a huge snob about the former but have terrible taste in the latter.
The six things I could never do without
Good coffee
My bike
Old movies
A good beat you can dance to
The possibility of change
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things I should be doing, gentrification, aesthetics, outfits, wrestling moves, full communism.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a tattoo of a photocopier on my butt. That isn't really so private though.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 24–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
First, some dealbreakers:

- your profile includes a Myers-Briggs personality type
- you are looking for 'straight-acting', 'masc', etc
- you have listed a bunch of authors you love and they're all white men
- okcupid thinks you are 'less kinky'
- you're racist, sexist, any other -ist or -phobe, or generally right-wing.

You should message me if:

- you want to do something fun
- you have radical politics and a sense of humour
- your idea of a good first date isn't just a beer at Sircuit, or (who am I kidding?) your idea of a good first date is just a beer at Sircuit
- you're at least potentially interested in some sort of sexual friendship, like not a monogamous relationship but not 'just' a hook-up either (i.e. you are at least willing to have a conversation).