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27 San Jose, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 8
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a geekish bookworm with a sense of humor drier than toast. I'm just a tiny bit dark and twisted in more ways than one. I'm a tad shy and introverted, but fun once I let loose.

I'm interested in meeting new people to date or make new friends with. That being said, I have a girlfriend I love very much. We are both poly and open and honest to our respective partners. So, sorry, no one night stands or clandestine meet ups. I'm open to dating others or having friends with benefits. If you have any questions or would like any other further clarification, don't be afraid to ask. I only bite with consent.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to keep all the balls I'm juggling up in the air and fully functioning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
massages, cooking, a variety of sports and being a smart ass.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told a lot of things. My height, my personality, my mannerisms. I'm not quite sure what people notice first...although the hair seems to be the big thing at the moment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books - Laurie J Marks' Elemental Logic series, Jim Butcher's Dresden Files. Mercedes Lackey's Obsidian Trilogy, The Dreamers Series, most things Edgar Allen Poe, Gail Carriger, Amanda Downum, Anne Rice, and then some.
music - Florence and the Machines, The Gossip, Shiny Toy Guns, Lady Sovereign, Dj Tiesto, Eric Church, Adele, Gotan Project, Example, Franz Ferdinand, Nine Inch Nails, Garbage, Bajofondo Tango Club, Skrillex, LCD Soundsystem (really too eclectic to list)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books, my kitchen knives, internet, computer, paper and pen, and music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything. Sometimes quite literally. Think of a Vitamix on full speed, expect little bits and pieces to come flying out to smack you in the face.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually, I'm working until it's off time, then open to whatever. Staying home and watching movies, playing video games, lounging around. Maybe going out with friends to a bar or a club. Sometimes finding new places to try food at.

Friday nights are also date nights with my girl, but sometimes she's willing to share.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a thing for musicals. Oddly enough, and you'll never know by looking at my movie collection, I have a thing for musicals.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You've found anything on my profile that is of interest to you and would be open to dating someone who is poly.
- You're interested in possibly making new friends over coffee or tea or food.
- Want a buddy for activities.
- Possibly looking for a night of fun, and yes, fun can have many, many meanings.