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STEPTHISWAY

65 F Redlands, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 54–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 7, 2012
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I have kicked a bale of hay off the back of a pick up truck in a Dior and three inch heels when I had to and I will spontaneously go dancing after riding on the back of a Harley all day in jeans and a doo-rag and I will be effortlessly elegant when the time calls for it. My kids are busy with their lives and now it's time for me. I work part time and have time to share. The "personality" category here does not represent the real me at all. Perhaps it's best not to answer any of those questions! It produces a deceptive image. My bucket list includes but not limited to learning to surf, wind surf, ride a Harley (and not on the back), fly fish, and fly a fighter plane (ok, maybe not in this lifetime?), learn lots about wine, to be the center of someone's universe!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working part time keeps me connected to the real and more youthful world, for which I am thankful. I love to dance and do as often as I can but I don't need my match to be a dancer if that's not his "thing." I garden a little, ride my bike when I have one (hoping to get a new beach cruiser), read, watch movies/tv/theater, haunt "old" shops, dine with friends and just love to putz....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good dancer. I write well, although I'm sure it's not coming across here since I have to focus on myself and that's a little uncomfortable right now. I'm really good at being spontaneous. I just love to pick up and go. I love to travel on planes, trains, motorcyles and horses!!!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Intensity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to peruse Barnes and Noble, sometimes all day. Psychological drama film intrigues me more often than sci fi or comedy but I'll watch just about anything that at least gets my attention. Classical music soothes me. Rock and Roll makes me want to dance. Modern music keeps me young and thinking. Eating is a social exercise for me. When I ask my friends or they ask me out to eat, I think of it as a social activity. If the food is good, it's a bonus. I'm still looking for a good Indian restaurant somewhere in this area. Eating is like dancing-- it's a sensuous exchange.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
RESPECT - DON'T PUSH MY BUTTONS!
PASSION FOR MY INDULGENCES
ACCEPTANCE OF WHO I AM AND HOW I AM WITHOUT CRITICISM
FREEDOM TO BE FOOLISH
SPONTANIETY - LET'S GO!
PATIENCE FROM OTHERS
MY CAR (WITH BLUETOOTH, BOTTLE OF WATER, AND A PHONE CHARGER).... OKAY, SO I CHEAT!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to meet my soul mate!!! I'll be honest. That's important to me. Yes I can be alone and yes I like myself, blah, blah, blah... but honestly who wants only that???? We live in this universe to be connected; it's like air; we can't avoid the need to be together and to be the center of someone's attention. How I miss that!!!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually dancing and hoping and talking and drinking a little wine!!!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Actually, my problem isn't divulging private matters...it's more a matter of forcing myself to not divulge everything. I'm an open book. Does this mean I think anyone who asks any question is entitled to all my answers? Nope! This takes investment on your part. For now, let me say this: I avoid men who are always looking over their shoulder for where they think the grass is greener!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Perhaps you could compare how we answered most of those ongoing questions. They reveal a lot, especially the questions we do not answer. If we are similar and avoided many of the same inquiries, then I would love to hear from you.