I have kicked a bale of hay off the back of a pick up truck in a
Dior and three inch heels when I had to and I will spontaneously go
dancing after riding on the back of a Harley all day in jeans and a
doo-rag and I will be effortlessly elegant when the time calls for
it. My kids are busy with their lives and now it's time for me. I
work part time and have time to share. The "personality" category
here does not represent the real me at all. Perhaps it's best not
to answer any of those questions! It produces a deceptive image. My
bucket list includes but not limited to learning to surf, wind
surf, ride a Harley (and not on the back), fly fish, and fly a
fighter plane (ok, maybe not in this lifetime?), learn lots about
wine, to be the center of someone's universe!
What I’m doing with my life
Working part time keeps me connected to the real and more youthful
world, for which I am thankful. I love to dance and do as often as
I can but I don't need my match to be a dancer if that's not his
"thing." I garden a little, ride my bike when I have one (hoping to
get a new beach cruiser), read, watch movies/tv/theater, haunt
"old" shops, dine with friends and just love to putz....
I’m really good at
I'm a good dancer. I write well, although I'm sure it's not coming
across here since I have to focus on myself and that's a little
uncomfortable right now. I'm really good at being spontaneous. I
just love to pick up and go. I love to travel on planes, trains,
motorcyles and horses!!!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to peruse Barnes and Noble, sometimes all day. Psychological
drama film intrigues me more often than sci fi or comedy but I'll
watch just about anything that at least gets my attention.
Classical music soothes me. Rock and Roll makes me want to dance.
Modern music keeps me young and thinking. Eating is a social
exercise for me. When I ask my friends or they ask me out to eat, I
think of it as a social activity. If the food is good, it's a
bonus. I'm still looking for a good Indian restaurant somewhere in
this area. Eating is like dancing-- it's a sensuous exchange.
The six things I could never do without
RESPECT - DON'T PUSH MY BUTTONS!
PASSION FOR MY INDULGENCES
ACCEPTANCE OF WHO I AM AND HOW I AM WITHOUT CRITICISM
FREEDOM TO BE FOOLISH
SPONTANIETY - LET'S GO!
PATIENCE FROM OTHERS
MY CAR (WITH BLUETOOTH, BOTTLE OF WATER, AND A PHONE CHARGER)....
OKAY, SO I CHEAT!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to meet my soul mate!!! I'll be honest. That's important to me.
Yes I can be alone and yes I like myself, blah, blah, blah... but
honestly who wants only that???? We live in this universe to be
connected; it's like air; we can't avoid the need to be together
and to be the center of someone's attention. How I miss that!!!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually dancing and hoping and talking and drinking a little
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Actually, my problem isn't divulging private matters...it's more a
matter of forcing myself to not divulge everything. I'm an open
book. Does this mean I think anyone who asks any question is
entitled to all my answers? Nope! This takes investment on your
part. For now, let me say this: I avoid men who are always looking
over their shoulder for where they think the grass is greener!
You should message me if
Perhaps you could compare how we answered most of those ongoing
questions. They reveal a lot, especially the questions we do not
answer. If we are similar and avoided many of the same inquiries,
then I would love to hear from you.