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25 M Saint Louis, MO

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:32pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hi! Thanks for visiting my profile :) Hopefully you're here because you'd like to get to know me and perhaps explore a potential friendship or relationship. If that's the case, feel free to send me a message, or reply to one that I sent you. (If I sent you a message and you're not interested, I strongly prefer you let me know because that way I can know to move on and leave you alone. ignoring messages does not tell someone you're not interested, for all I know you're too busy to respond right now or something like that...)

Self summary: I'm not very good at talking about myself like this, it's much easier to do it in conversation because it's hard to get the important information out there without knowing what specifically is important so if you have any questions, just ask and I'll answer.

Things you should know though, obviously I am different than most guys that you'd think you'd find on here, probably nowhere near who you had in mind when you started looking for guys on here but trust me when I say that I'm still a person and I still have feelings and need friendship/companionship just like you do (otherwise why are you on OKCupid?). I am a crossdresser. It's not full time so what you see on this profile is not how I look all the time but I feel I need to keep this separate from the profile for how I normally for certain reasons that I can explain better in conversation. I can explain now that I want this to NOT be a secret between any potential romantic interest and I which is why I'm out in the open about it on this site. Secrets and such are not good for any relationship so why start one knowing there's a huge one like this?

But more about me... I have never been in a relationship before but I'm very ready for it, assuming I can find someone willing to give me a fair chance at one. So far I've been extremely unlucky at that because people are so judgmental or closed minded. I'm also extremely shy around strangers which makes it near impossible to meet new people out in the real world but talking to someone online first gets rid of that shyness.

What I'm looking for: Someone to be my best friend in life, someone to share all my feelings and experiences with, someone who I can do likewise for, someone who can be the hug I need every time we meet, the hand to hold as we take a walk through the park (or wherever else), someone to be the shoulder I can cry on (figuratively or literally) and who I would do likewise for, someone who will go on adventures with me to new places and try new things (probably small places/things to start) and of course someone to kiss goodnight to as we part for the night. Most guys on here just want sex, or want everything that will lead to it, that is not me. I believe sex should come very deep into the relationship when there is an unbreakable emotional bond. So you won't have to worry about me pressuring you for sex until we're both absolutely ready.

Other things to note: I extremely enjoy sports, Baseball comes first then hockey and football (Cards, Blues and Rams of course) and it'd be great if you enjoy them too but I also know sports aren't for everyone so no biggie if you don't enjoy them that much. I'm also quite nerdy and enjoy nerdy stuff like sci-fi and video games and computers and all that but I also enjoy outdoor activities like hiking or camping among other things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently taking Computer Science at UMSL and will graduate in 2015 also with a minor in math. I also am currently seeking friends to hang out with at UMSL while in between classes as I have a long schedule some days and I usually just stay there by myself the whole time so if you're interested in just hanging out between classes, I'm up for that too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
walking in heels... though finding good ones in my size is a bit of a challenge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My legs. you have no idea how many women say they wish their legs were like mine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I don't read much anymore, mostly it was harry potter and such. Most I read anymore is sports articles online.

Movies: There's too many good movies to list them; I tend to like sci-fi the most.

Shows: Again too many to list individually but I can't not list Doctor Who, Torchwood, and Sherlock. More Sci-fi, also some scientific documentary types too.

Music: Classic Rock, more specifically bands like Aerosmith, Foreigner, Journey, ACDC, etc...

Food: to many to list but special shout outs to pizza, steak, shrimp... stuff like that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who's the girl I'm going to marry someday and why is it taking forever to find her?

I'm going to be 25 next week and still NEVER had a girlfriend. what is wrong with you all?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not doing much. Looking for someone to go do stuff with on Friday nights (or any other more convenient nights)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Haven't I told you enough? lol.
You should message me if
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You are willing to give me a fair chance at love.
You want to know more about me or about crossdressing in general.
You want to hang out at UMSL between classes.
I messaged you and you are not interested. (this is very important, I strongly encourage you to do it, trust me I can take it.)

You should NOT message me if:
You are a man.
You are going to be rude or mean to me.
You are just going to waste my time.