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36 Havertown, PA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am originally from New England, but I have lived here in Philadelphia for over six years now. I am in a place in my life where I know who I am and what matters to me, but what that means for my future... I'm not sure. Sometimes I love what I do, and sometimes I would like a change. My parents have often told me that time passes more quickly as you get older. I plan on making the most of the second half of my 30's. This I know! ;)

I am energetic, compassionate, and bold
What I’m doing with my life
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After getting my Master's in Theatre at the University of Oregon (for a change of perspective) I joined Teach for America to teach English to at-risk youth - and so I relocated here. My TFA commitment is finished, but I am still teaching in West Philly. I enjoy my job, as challenging as it may be. This year I have transitioned from teaching English to teaching Theatre electives. I am now the Director of Theatre for my school, and the Theatre department is humming along quite nicely.
I’m really good at
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being organized and thoughtful when I need to, but knowing when to slow down or relax. I try anyways. It can be hard, as a teacher, because there is always something else to be done. You need to take time for yourself though. I'm also really good at being an amazing gay uncle. I'm really good at creating and designing and seeing things that others don't see. I'm really good at movie trivia. I'm borderline psychic when it comes to that. Someone asked me where they would know Chiwetel Ejiofor from the other day, and I replied, "He was Denzel Washington's partner in Inside Man. He was the lead in Kinky Boots. He was in Children of Men. He was in Serenity..." Yeah, I'm that guy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my blue eyes, my general comfort in social situations, and my natural ebullience... if I turn around you'd then probably notice my well-shaped ass. I am not an "ass man" per se, but those that are have commented on mine. So hey, you've got to play to your strengths. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Things in Print - Frog and Toad Are Friends, The Lord of the Rings, Cloud 9, Their Eyes Were Watching God, Macbeth, Jitterbug Perfume, David Sedaris, The Last Unicorn, August Wilson, comic books...

Movies - Heavenly Creatures, In America, Amelie, The Silence of the Lambs, Aliens, The Incredibles, The Apartment, Chidlren of Men, Cary Grant classics, Almodovar... more recently Gravity and 12 Years a Slave! I love Oscar season.

Music - I buy random things on itunes, but let's see... Feist, Sigur Ros, Tracy Bonham, Bon Iver, Jeff Buckley, Fiona Apple, some Bollywood tunes...

Food - I am allergic to fish (sadly), but because of it I am generally pretty daring to try new things. I like to cook and love to eat. This is one of the reasons I love living in Philadelphia. There is SUCH diversity of food here.

And a quote I came across in the Citypaper, which I loved:
You can be angry till you're 20, you can be pissed at your parents till you're 30, after that, shut up. - John Waters
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The love of my family
A group of close friends
A way to express myself artistically
A little place of refuge
Some kind of body of water within driving distance
A means to achieve
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Staying true to myself, being a good person, staying positive and upbeat, and doing good. And then I think of creative ways to have fun or just do nothing. I think about how I can improve myself too, but not to some insane degree. I think about sex and relationships. I think about all the creative projects that I never have time for. I think about education and my students. I think about the environment and that this world of ours will probably look drastically different in 50 years when I am an old man. I think a lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, having dinner... seeing a movie... going to show maybe... or I am at home, on the couch, having a slice of pizza, and being really okay with that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I am not sure what is reasonable to expect. I would like a relationship, but I think that starts with someone to spend time with and have fun with. I feel like some guys, though, will walk away if you don't represent some cardboard cut-out of what they exactly think they want, and that is disappointing. And yet, I remain hopeful that someone amazing is out there ready to meet me.
You should message me if
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you believe that there is something better out there, that relationships start with friendships, that laughing is a good thing, and that building a life with someone is a goal worth working for.