(1) Do NOT ask me to contact you outside of OKCUPID. If I want to, I will ask for your info, but a few back and forth messages are not enough to get my contact information! I'm sick of being asked.
(2) If you're someone looking for a hook-up or expecting sex soon after we meet...then keep looking. I'm not that kind of girl.))
I'm a big kid: a newly graduated former college student who loves celebrating and doing all the things that she's too old for now like pinatas and trick-or-treating!
I say that just because I'm an adult doesn't mean I should stop enjoying and doing the things that made me happy as a child!
I'm also so freaked out about the future that I just try to avoid thinking about it as much as possible! Great coping skill, right? ^w^;;
I warn people that I'm like white water rafting. Don't fight it, just go with the flow...or else you're gonna end up frustrated and very very wet. (No innuendo, I swear! :-P)
Oh, and despite my badges, I AM both spontaneous and a huge planner. Ain't contradictions great?
I am boisterous, vivacious, and all-over-the-place.
Edit: Some things I'd like to add...
First: I do not smoke pot but I do not feel that it is a necessarily bad drug.
I have done research on it. I have smoked it once and would seriously consider smoking it again. I would simply be careful of the source, how pot might effect my health, and the legal problems I might face.
But I do feel that pot deserves serious, and unbiased researching to fully understand its negative and positive effects.
Second: I am an Atheist. However, if you are Christian, or Muslim, or Jewish, or Buddhist, or whatever...my big issue with you is being told that I'm 'going to Hell' either directly or coyly. It REALLY annoys me when someone gives me a sh*t-eating grin and speaks in a tone of false concern when they inform me that if I don't believe in a god, (or their god) that I won't be able to receive their god's love or go to Heaven or whatever.
If you're religious, great. Enjoy.
If you think I'm going to Hell, then don't talk to me. Ever.
Last, I'm not here for dates. Not anymore. If you want to compliment me...great! I'm flattered! I may do the same! I'm a flirty person! But I'm not interested in dating. Or having sex.
So, if that's all you want, then please move on. I'm sure you'll find someone else.