WE are a polyamorous COUPLE, which means be prepared to chat with either or both or go the f^&k on.
if you are interested he is Dragonsage47 here on okcupid
Funny how many people HATE the GENDER binary but openly disrespect people who are polyamorous...Open-minded much...NOT
We have been ACTIVELY Polyamorous our whole relationship. This is not to spice up our relationship, we don't need spice, got that in abundance and to spare.
WE don't believe in the Love-O-Meter
We are NOT swingers, but we do like to have fun, Friends, lovers, FWB, a fling are all acceptable but ultimately we seek a LTR with the right lady. We've been close a cpl of times and we've DATED several women. Yes traditional style dating. Dinners, clubs, movies, late night walks you name it. Due to circumstances none actually motivated us enough to continue the relationship. We are NOT LOOKING FOR A 3rd Wheel, but a full partner. Someone to make us stronger and better.
I am a WE, WE are a COUPLE. NO MEN, NO BOYS, NO COUPLES except friends. We have a wonderful relationship, he is my best friend, lover, confidant, and partner.
Also the hate for poly people is nuts! Why is it ok to hate on polyamorous people but it's everyone else gets a pass
If you love hip-hip we probably have nothing in common, or not enough to bother with, there might be a few exceptions but we've yet to meet her.
WE are gamers... LOTRO, Pathfinder, GURPS, XBOXetc....
Noticing of late the the concept of an open mind is bandied around quite often, but the actual reality seems to be I want open minded people who agree with me, seriously people, that doesn't make you open minded. Open minded means you respect everyones values, not just the ones you agree with.
Pleasers and Givers are well received and reciprocation isn't possible its standard.
Smart is sexy so having a brain is a big plus, we like eye candy but ultimately substance wins over. By Brain I mean someone who isn't a wannabe thug and who doesn't type in ghetto speak, sorry but English is the only language I respond to. Dis ain't dat type o gurl yo...lol Also, if you email me include something about you in the email, show me you've got something going on besides hormones.
I have all the satisfaction I need, I'm looking for a friend/lover for US, if that's a problem move on.
Things I love, My GUY, he's the Best, ask me and I will explain, MUsic(Metal/Hard Rock, Classical, Some Jazz), Concerts, Rpg's, (Table Top and Online), Horror, Fantasy, Books, Geeky Girls and Tough Guys, A Good Movie, Cooking, Sex, Porn, yes Porn, Roadtrips, 420, My Cats, Most animals with Legs. I love to Dance. I love to cook, I LOVE THAI, and spicy food in general, though I'm a recent convert. Kinky stuff, Summer Showers, Snuggling.
We are regular Gamers, twice a week...D&D, Pathfinder, GURPS, other assundry fun stuff
Quiz...What is your quest?...What is your favorite color?.... What is this quote from?
Things I don't like, Rudeness, Liars, People who claim they are open minded but really aren't, Shallow People, Fish, Except nearly burnt fish sticks with a lot of ketchup, I HATE worms and slugs and most any other leg-less things. I don't like Techno, or Trance, or Country. I am pretty picky about music lol. I hate the Winter, my feet and nose are always cold.