So I find myself back on this site, in recent weeks, after about a 10 month break. I guess that means it's time for a quick update. It just always seems so awkward answering these questions. I'd really so much rather just meet you in person and determine if we have any pulse pounding chemistry. That is, after all, a large part of what I'm looking for.
But if all you want right now is a quick & over-simplified description, here you go:
I'd say I'm an outgoing, confident, affectionate, intellectually curious, well-adjusted, optimistic, sexual woman who enjoys a quick witted, smart, generous, funny, handsome, (tall) man who can make me feel both safe & turned on when you wrap your arms around me. Come on, is that really too much to ask??! ;)
I tend to play and joke a lot, but that's just my way. In fact, if you start to feel I'm giving you a hard time in anyway, you should know it's actually probably just because I'm interested and trying to gauge your level of self confidence and tenacity.
I definitely don't need or even want a man who agrees with me on everything. I'm open to challenges.
Ultimately, I just want what most people want... To find the right person. Someone to connect with, love, support (& be supported by). Someone with whom I can share my life, my heart, but who still recognizes & loves me as an independent individual.
But I can't be certain that's exactly what life has in store for me right at this moment. So I remain open... Open to what life brings. And although I'd like to find a great relationship, I realize it may take sometime before I find 'the one'. So at the moment I'm am also open to a casual (safe, consenting) adult friendship - if the chemistry is right.