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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 7:40pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I'm a transplant from New England. I spent my childhood running wild in the lakes and mountains of New Hampshire. I moved to Chicago in June of 2009; I love the city, but I miss the calm of the woods.

I am in a polyamorous relationship with my partner. She also has a partner and we all live together.

I like to read. I generally have a mix of books I'm reading at once. Usually a memoir or biography along with something involving politics or economics. I believe in constantly educating myself.

I like to stay active, I'd rather be playing sports than watching. I don't watch a lot of TV or play video games. I consider myself a very open minded person and am easy to get along with. Politically I am very liberal but do hold on to some conservative ideas.

I don't read others very well so I tend to be direct. I understand that I am a white male and am very in tune with the fact that because of this I have privilege.
What I’m doing with my life
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Navigating it as best as I can. I have lots of aspirations. I just have to wait and see where life will lead.

Currently working in Operations Management at a Distribution Center just outside the edge of the city in the south suburbs.
I’m really good at
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Making Green Smoothies
Making Coffee
Being Sarcastic
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have varied and eclectic tastes in food, music, movies, tv and books.

Favorite authors include Augusten Burroughs, David Sedaris and Michael Lewis.

Aerosmith is my favorite band.

Thanks to Pandora I have too many artists to list, but it's a huge list from Yo Yo Ma to Eminem. Really whatever I'm in the mood for.

I generally try to eat lots of vegetables so mostly vegetarian but I don't limit myself when I want something. If I want a double bacon cheeseburger I'll eat one but when given a choice I'd choose the veggie burger.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a movie or catching up on the latest episodes of Scandal and How to Get Away with Murder.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I used to be obese.
You should message me if
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Your are also non-monogamous or interested in non-monogamy.

You want a running, hiking or other kind of workout/activity partner or you happen to own a sailboat and want to go for a sail.

You want to explore a yoga class. I've always wanted to try just haven't gone.

You want to grab a coffee and see if we connect.