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SailorJames1234

54 M Walnut Creek, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 12
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Funny, smart, passionate, honest, kind, strong...no particular order...circumstance determines which characteristic shines brightest at any given time.

I have to say, I'm getting a kick out of this site. I like the "ya'll got problems" warning it provides when you view a bad match, and the % Enemy rating. Hilarious. I also like browsing the questions as answered by a potential match. Many questions are lame, but overall I think they achieve the goal, which is revealing stuff we might not think to write in our little self-summaries.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well, looking for you among other things. Those other things include being the best uncle I can, giving my rescue puppies and cats the best life possible, constantly learning/exploring, seeking adventures, trying to figure out how to retire very early (perhaps in Costa Rica), and just generally trying to squeeze the most out of every single day because I firmly believe this life is all there is...and I'm fine with that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem solving, improvising, fixing things, putting others first, empathizing, caring, leading, following, sharing, procrastinating, kissing, and bedroom stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My light blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book - Sirens of Titan and anything else by Vonnegut, anything by Tom Robbins, Mark Twain etc. Movies - The Notebook, Dances with Wolves, The Princess Bride, American Beauty. TV shows: The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, The Colbert Report, Survivor, a variety of news programs, The Office. Music - Mumford and Sons, Josh Ritter, Xavier Rudd, Jack Johnson, Ben Harper, The Low Anthem, Avette Brothers. Food - Yes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My critters, my friends, a boat, warm water to swim in, music, adventure...and the bonus number 7 to demonstrate I'm a rule breaker...a recipient for my love (role currently filled by 2 puppies and 2 cats).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I might make the world a profoundly better place, even if it's just for a few people or animals my life brushes into. Politics and religion. I'm liberal and agnostic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home watching a movie with my dogs and cats, at times from my hot tub in the rain. Occasionally out on a date. Often somewhere I can view the sunset. Sometimes camping on a beach, or a mountain top, or a river valley. Other times out floating on a lake in my houseboat and gazing at the stars while sitting by the fire.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Once in a while a really touching movie, or an incredibly beautiful piece of music can bring tears to my eyes.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like what you see and read, and if you honestly think that I will feel the same way. Or...if you are very attractive and just have to have me no matter what. That's another good reason I suppose.