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54 M Walnut Creek, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:46pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Funny, smart, passionate, honest, kind, particular order...circumstance determines which characteristic shines brightest at any given time.

I have to say, I'm getting a kick out of this site. I like the "ya'll got problems" warning it provides when you view a bad match, and the % Enemy rating. Hilarious. I also like browsing the questions as answered by a potential match. Many questions are lame, but overall I think they achieve the goal, which is revealing stuff we might not think to write in our little self-summaries.
What I’m doing with my life
Well, looking for you among other things. Those other things include being the best uncle I can, giving my rescue puppies and cats the best life possible, constantly learning/exploring, seeking adventures, trying to figure out how to retire very early (perhaps in Costa Rica), and just generally trying to squeeze the most out of every single day because I firmly believe this life is all there is...and I'm fine with that.
I’m really good at
Improvising, fixing things, putting others first, empathizing, caring, leading, following, sharing, procrastinating, kissing, and bedroom stuff.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book - Sirens of Titan and anything else by Vonnegut, anything by Tom Robbins, Mark Twain etc. Movies - The Notebook, Dances with Wolves, The Princess Bride, American Beauty. TV shows: The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, The Colbert Report, Survivor, a variety of news programs, The Office. Music - Mumford and Sons, Josh Ritter, Xavier Rudd, Jack Johnson, Ben Harper, The Low Anthem, Avette Brothers. Food - Yes
The six things I could never do without
My critters, my friends, a boat, warm water to swim in, music, adventure...and the bonus number 7 to demonstrate I'm a rule breaker...a recipient for my love (role currently filled by 2 puppies and 2 cats).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I might make the world a profoundly better place, even if it's just for a few people or animals my life brushes into. Politics and religion. I'm liberal and agnostic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home watching a movie with my dogs and cats, at times from my hot tub in the rain. Occasionally out on a date. Often somewhere I can view the sunset. Sometimes camping on a beach, or a mountain top, or a river valley. Other times out floating on a lake in my houseboat and gazing at the stars while sitting by the fire.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I seem to have a hobby of experimental baking. I regularly try to make the ideal breakfast food...sometimes savory, sometimes sweet. Generally my concoctions include oats, rice, nuts, fruit, eggs and are designed to be very good for you, high fiber, low in calories, and just tasty enough. We all know how to make something super good...butter, salt and sugar. I'm trying to find balance on the thin line between healthy and tasty. My latest creation is thin oat, sunflower seed, garlic flat-bread with a bit of low fat cheddar melted on top. I cut it up into bread sized pieces, and then put fresh avocado between two pieces of this thin crust "bread".
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like what you see and read, and if you honestly think that I will feel the same way. Or...if you are very attractive and just have to have me no matter what. That's another good reason I suppose.