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45 M Minneapolis, MN

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 7
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Relationship Status
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Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm relatively new to the twin cities (from Chicago).
My YouTube Videos Here
Let's be friends! We don't need to have similar personalities or the same array of interests for us to be compatible; differences may often prove to be complimentary. I balance a technical profession with a passion for creating.

I've never been married and have no children; I'm in favor of both though. I guess you could say I'm a late bloomer.

I'm fond of fun, sentimental, resourceful, courteous, kind, obedient, disobedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, reverent, irreverent, thoughtful, hilarious, strong, atypical, pious, well mannered, traditional, silly, and skilled people; I'm often a combination of those.
What I’m doing with my life
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By day: I'm a mild-mannered Sr. IT Systems Engineer; by night: I write, produce, and record music.

Currently, I'm on a jag to learn about the history of the English language; I've been an autodidact most of my life . I'm also reading and listening to lectures by Anthony de Mello.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
using Oxford commas, having your back in a donnybrook, fixing stuff, figuring out the endings to movies too early, hand-written-letters, giving gifts, making friends laugh at inappropriate times, cooking, grammar & punctuation, painting, drawing, love, making up words, trivia, massage, languages, pranks, singing, making stuff up, chess, and holding hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Messy hair maybe? I've been told that I look young for my age and that I'm articulate. I like to wear zipper cardigans and scarves; I've been complimented and made fun of for that stuff.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Letters to a young poet, Biographies, Eniac, Tipping point, Confessions of Saint Augustine, The Count of Monte Cristo...

Wes Anderson films, Ameli, The Brothers Bloom, The Giant Mechanical Man, Casablanca, I am NOT a hipster, A Hard Day's Night...

Downton Abbey, The Mentalist, Nashville, Portlandia...

Music: (maybe I'll make you a mix-tape)
Jeff Buckley, Dr Dog, Del Amitri, The Beatles, Dawes, Sufjan Stevens, 20th century classical composers, David Gray, Ray LaMontagne, Brigitte & Serge. My stuff is pretty good too, I think...

Sushi, Thai, Indian, I like to cook for others the most

...more will be revealed in time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The 4 loves (Storge, Philia, Eros, and Agape)
Galaxy S4 Phone
Musical Instruments
Lays Dill Pickle Potato chips (with fresca)
Dunn Brothers Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love, God, the universe, songs, inventions, work, recent conversations et al.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I find pale/fair skin attractive
You should message me if
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you have something interesting, intelligent, or kind to say and if you can behave like a lady worthy of my respect