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45 M Minneapolis, MN

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm relatively new to the twin cities (from Chicago).
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Let's be friends! We don't need to have similar personalities or the same array of interests for us to be compatible; differences may often prove to be complimentary. I balance a technical profession with a passion for creating.

I've never been married and have no children; I'm in favor of both though. I guess you could say I'm a late bloomer.

I'm fond of fun, sentimental, resourceful, courteous, kind, obedient, disobedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, reverent, irreverent, thoughtful, hilarious, strong, atypical, pious, well mannered, traditional, silly, and skilled people; I'm often a combination of those.
What I’m doing with my life
By day: I'm a mild-mannered Sr. IT Systems Engineer; by night: I write, produce, and record music.

Currently, I'm on a jag to learn about the history of the English language; I've been an autodidact most of my life . I'm also reading and listening to lectures by Anthony de Mello.
I’m really good at
using Oxford commas, having your back in a donnybrook, fixing stuff, figuring out the endings to movies too early, hand-written-letters, giving gifts, making friends laugh at inappropriate times, cooking, grammar & punctuation, painting, drawing, love, making up words, trivia, massage, languages, pranks, singing, making stuff up, chess, and holding hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
Messy hair maybe? I've been told that I look young for my age and that I'm articulate. I like to wear zipper cardigans and scarves; I've been complimented and made fun of for that stuff.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Letters to a young poet, Biographies, Eniac, Tipping point, Confessions of Saint Augustine, The Count of Monte Cristo...

Wes Anderson films, Ameli, The Brothers Bloom, The Giant Mechanical Man, Casablanca, I am NOT a hipster, A Hard Day's Night...

Downton Abbey, The Mentalist, Nashville, Portlandia...

Music: (maybe I'll make you a mix-tape)
Jeff Buckley, Dr Dog, Del Amitri, The Beatles, Dawes, Sufjan Stevens, 20th century classical composers, David Gray, Ray LaMontagne, Brigitte & Serge. My stuff is pretty good too, I think...

Sushi, Thai, Indian, I like to cook for others the most

...more will be revealed in time.
The six things I could never do without
The 4 loves (Storge, Philia, Eros, and Agape)
Galaxy S4 Phone
Musical Instruments
Lays Dill Pickle Potato chips (with fresca)
Dunn Brothers Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Love, God, the universe, songs, inventions, work, recent conversations et al.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I find pale/fair skin attractive
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you have something interesting, intelligent, or kind to say and if you can behave like a lady worthy of my respect