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25 • F • Brighton, UK
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–32
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last Online
- Oct 17
- Body Type
- Not at all
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
I am also spending too much time on the internet on message boards, blogs, looking up nice things to buy that I can't afford, making lists, etc., but am trying to quit (and can proudly say that I have now quit internet games for good as they just suck you in and then spit you out every now and then to eat and sleep and then suck you back in again... I could probably come up with a more entertaining metaphor than that).
When I'm not wasting time online I mostly watch and read stuff, try and stay in touch with my friends and sister, and try and keep on top of the general business of ablutions and not letting the flat become a tip (the latter with the help of my P.A.). I also volunteer at Amnesty Bookshop when I have the time/shit-togetheredness to do so.
My hair (either that it's long, that it's pretty or that it sometimes hasn't been washed in over a week).
That I have nice legs (ok, that was one guy, but I do seem to get a lot of positive attention when I wear short skirts).
That I talk fast
That my bras don't fit (I do wear one at a time, I just have more than one that doesn't fit... I don't have anything against people who wear more than one bra at a time).
That I seem intelligent
That my T-shirts are cool (and usually have at least one small food stain on them, this also applies to my clothes more generally).
That I'm fat (nice when someone's cool with it, not nice when they start telling me I should be losing weight even though dieting causes me to develop eating disordered/body dysmorphic thought patterns that are very distressing for me).
That I have lots of DVDs and comics (in the form of collected book editions, I don't want to deal with the flimsiness of trades, also this is generally something people notice when they see my room, I don't usually walk around with a sizable library on my person).
Movies: Loads, but all time favourites include 5 Centimeters Per Second, The Adventures of Mark Twain (the animated one directed by Will Vinton), Akira, Aladdin (Disney), Angel's Egg (I'm trying to limit myself to one per director here but would like to point out for the record that I consider not only this but also Patlabor Movies 1 & 2, The Sky Crawlers, and Urusei Yatsura Movie 2: Beautiful Dreamer to be far better directorial works of Mamoru Oshii that the well known Ghost in the Shell, which I still like), Batman: Mask of the Phantasm, The Boy Who Wanted to Do the Impossible (also known as The Boy Who Wanted to Be a Bear), The Cat Who Walked By Herself, Chico & Rita, The Dark Crystal, The Emperor's New Groove, Evangelion 1.11 & 2.22 (can't wait for movies 3 and 4!), Fantastic Mr. Fox (to all the people whinging about how american it was? Let's see the u.k's pathetic animation industry do better then), Feherlofia (Son of the White Mare/The White Mare's Son), The Girl Who Leaped Through Time, Grave of the Fireflies, "Gwen, the Book of Sand", The Hunchback of Notre Dame (yes, the Disney version), The Iron Giant, Jin-Roh: The Wolf Brigade, Josie and the Pussycats, The Jungle Book (Disney animated), Kiki's Delivery Service, Kirikou and the Sorceress, Lilo and Stitch, Metropolis (Osamu Tezuka/Rintaro), The Naked Gun, Orphee, The Plague Dogs (miles better than Watership Down), Princess Arete, Pump Up the Volume, The Secret of Kells, Tokyo Godfathers, A Tree of Palme, Up (Pixar)... there's lots more. I also still own the 2005 Radio Times Film Guide which I hope to one day finish reading and watch all the films that sounded interesting (and yes, I do also use the IMDb) :D
TV/OVAs (In addition to the stuff I've already mentioned): Azumanga Daioh, Batman: The Animated Series, Beck: Mongolian Chop Squad, A Bit of Fry and Laurie, Cowboy Bebop, Buffy/Angel, Carnivale, Chuck, Courage the Cowardly Dog, Dad's Army, Eureka Seven, Father Ted, Fawlty Towers, Firefly, FLCL, Flight of the Conchords, Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends, Full Metal Panic!, Futurama, Gargoyles, Ghost in the Shell: Standalone Complex, The Good Life, Katanagatari, Kino's Journey, Last Exile, The Marvelous Misadventures of Flapjack, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Noein: To Your Other Self, Paranoia Agent, Please Save My Earth, The Powerpuff Girls, Princess Tutu, Puella Magi Madoka Magica, Pushing Daisies, Revolutionary Girl Utena, Samurai Champloo, Samurai Jack, Samurai X/Rurouni Kenshin: Trust and Betrayal, Serial Experiments Lain, Smack the Pony, Spaced, The Tatami Galaxy, Teen Titans, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann, The Twelve Kingdoms, The Venture Bros./Brothers, Wolf's Rain and many more.
Music: Electric Six and (though I will very much miss just having put "and other stuff") also The Afghan Whigs, Air (my favourite album by them is their soundtrack to The Virgin Suicides), Alice in Chains, Tori Amos, Bad Religion, Baddies, Bat for Lashes, The Beach Boys, The Beatles, Beck, Beyonce/Destiny's Child, Bjork, Blur, Boris, The Cardigans, Chik Budo (it seems like out of every two songs they release, one is forgettable and the other is one of the most perfect things I've ever heard), Cibo Matto, Chris Cornell (just Euphoria Morning though), The Cure, Depeche Mode, Aretha Franklin, Interpol, Janis Joplin, Queens of the Stone Age, Radiohead, Bob Wiseman. If you want a comprehensive list after C, you'll have to wait :D
Food: Bacon, Cheese, Chocolate (and chocolate brownies, cheesecake, mousse, trifle), Croissants, Cucumbers, Donuts, Ice cream, Kiwi Fruit, Lychees, Mangoes, Milk and Milkshakes (I know it's debatable whether this counts as food or drink, I say both), Mushroom Risotto, Fried Onions, Paella, Pasta, Pizza, Raspberries, Sandwiches, Vegetable Samosas, Smoked Salmon, Spanish Omelettes, Sushi, Tomatoes, Dessert Waffles... and so on, food is good. Not a big fan of spicy foods and will never try snails, the thought makes me gag (I have nothing against french people, I just don't want to eat snails).
I'll fill the rest of these in soon.
My Rights (and everyone else's)
Wanking (and I really don't want to go without partnered sex either, but I could deal with that, never masturbating again however would wreck my mental health) and hugs. Therefore covering my most essential kinds of touch.
Friends/Family - and more generally, love.
People I love
How to make the world a better place
Can I afford to buy this awesome extremely nerdy thing?
Will I ever manage to work through my DVD/book backlog?
If Jerry's so smart, why on earth does he hide the can opener so Tom has no other sources of food than him?
Was Barney the Purple Dinosaur a missed opportunity to create a mascot for queer scientists? Could he have, potentially, been awesome rather than annoying?
That AMV I keep meaning to make
You agree with me about politics, which among other things means supporting abortion rights for all women, not just women who you don't consider to be sluts because they didn't make the supposedly terrible, evil decision to have sex *rolls eyes*. I mean, seriously, why on earth would I fuck you knowing that you think I should have to run the risk of 9 months of health problems and potentially injuries such as a torn clitoris or vaginal prolapse, permanent disability or death plus pain that lasts for hours or even days if I fuck you? Especially when you don't have to run any of those risks yourself? You don't have to specifically consider yourself liberal or feminist, but if you're anti-feminist/anti-womanist or conservative/republican, we aren't going to get along. We also aren't going to get along if you're opposed to welfare and/or public education and/or laws meant to prevent discrimation in employment, housing, etc. And furthermore we are not going to get along if you are pro-censorship even if your reasons are supposedly feminist.
Optional but preferred:
You like anime and/or manga.
In the unlikely but awesome eventuality that:
You are not human but can still type - I'll be well impressed and promise not to reveal your secret to the media.
And furthermore don't message me if:
You are going to send me pictures of yourself naked or ask to have webcam sex when I haven't asked for them/that and we've only just met.
You hate children (I don't want to be a parent, but hating children is really wrong)
You're anti-abortion (which includes if you think they should lower the time limit)
You're prejudiced against any group of people, including but not limited to ones to which I belong, such as queer, disabled, female assigned at birth, fat, etc. A few more examples of people I won't talk to are those who believe that race or gender determine intelligence, people who blame rape-victims for their rapes, people who think it's impossible for a man to be raped by a woman, and people who think that disabled people are/should be asexual. And though it should be FUCKING CLEAR FROM EVERYTHING ELSE IN MY PROFILE, I do not want to talk to you if you think that being LGBTQUIA is wrong, I've been messaged by a couple of straight guys who thought female homo/bisexuality was acceptable but male homo/bisexuality wasn't... A) You're fucking bigots B) You think with your dicks instead of your hearts and heads C) I'm insulted that you'd think, based on my profile, that I'd be such a hypocrite as to be ok with you being prejudiced against gay/bi men (or for that matter, trans women, I wouldn't be surprised if you were prejudiced against them too), especially since some of them are among my dearest friends (if you guys are reading this, I love you, you're fucking awesome!)... oh yeah, this shit is personal. And it IS acceptable for men to wear makeup/earrings/whatever clothes they want, no matter how "girly/feminine", if you think it isn't fuck off. Oh, and furthermore, and what is more, and Thomas Moore, lesbianism does not exist to get men off.
You answered yes to that question about whether the world would be a better place if people with low IQs weren't allowed to reproduce... eugenics is WRONG.
You are pro-death penalty.
You're hoping to have kinky sex with me... I'm very accepting of other people's kinks but I'm not kinky, so we can be friends, but not romantic/sexual partners.
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