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34 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–37
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

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Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a creative and mechanically inclined artist who enjoys taking pictures, drawing and painting. I look to appreciate the beauty in everything whether it's in people, design or nature.

Growing up in the the hills of Northern California allowed me to develop an affinity for nature. I like hiking, slow bike rides and outdoor adventures in general. I also love animals, I'm the guy who stops to take a moment to communicate with that cute stray cat. I've been called the cat whisperer on more than a few occasions. Dogs and I get along famously too. I tend be quiet or reserved and like to reflect while alone, usually over a cup of delicious coffee. I'm happy sitting with a view and enjoying the moment. Want to join?

I love learning about the world and the science of it. I'm fascinated by the universe and it's overwhelming scales. I never claim I know why we are here or why the universe exists, but I enjoy the great mystery of it and it's really fun to think about.

I also like to tinker, take things apart and fix them.

I enjoy playing and watching sports, especially NBA basketball. I appreciate the strategies behind them and their representation of our inherent athletic and competitive nature. Another passion of mine is motorsports. I greatly admire seeing engineering and design being pushed to new levels as well as the extremes that people will go through to set bars in human ability and endurance.

Critical social justice, race, and class theories are important to me. I'm still in the process of learning ways to deconstruct the systems of oppression and understanding the intersections of these fundamental problems.

FYI; I am in a healthy and honest friendship with my ex partner which I still live with. We are best friends who are dating new people and sharing a home together.
What I’m doing with my life
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Appreciating and learning everyday. Making art, friends, and memories.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my hair, I started going grey in high school.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Neruda, Alice Miller, Faust, Burroughs, Steinbeck

Mr. Bean, A Bigger Picture, A Bigger Slash, Herzog, Coen Bros, Christmas Vacation, documentaries on Netflix, YouTubing

Snap Judgement, NPR, Democracy Now, The Moth, BBC world News, Al Jazeera News, Ted Radio Hour, Fresh Air, This American Life, Radio Lab

Reverberations radio, Crystal Castles, Chopin, Neil Young, Merle Haggard, Lucky Dragons, Nina Simone, Beck, Bright Black Morning Light, Triangle, Mndr, The Birds of America, Lennon, Serge Gainsbourg, Tribe, Wu-Tang, Coltrane, Bonny 'Prince' Billy, Beethoven, Queen, Ella Fitzgerald, Dizzy, The 'Bird', Can, Kraut, Faust, MJ, Neutral Milk Hotel, Patsy Cline, Mariah, Reggie Watts, Fela, Lou Reed, Grey, Mingus, The Weeknd, Cash, Miles, Stevie, Dolly, Living Legends, the knife, 13th Floor Elevators, Mogwai, Explosions in the Sky, Pixies, Pulp, Cumbia, Os Mutantes, The Wire, do make say think

chard, kale, zucchini, brussels sprouts, pizza, chicken, bbq, fried rice, tom yum, broccoli, granola, strawberries, blueberries, sweet potatoes, yams, oatmeal walnut chocolate chip cookies, tacos, burritos, bran or lemon poppyseed muffins, sesame sead bagles w butter or light cream cheese, curry
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Warm water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How things work

What animals would/can say

The great unknown

Body language

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a lot to learn
You should message me if
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You think we might get along well
You are an artist or creative or a nice person
You enjoy coffee
You are open, honest, and intelligent