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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50-99
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Native American, White
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other and it’s important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
NOTE REGARDING LOCATION: I'm looking to relocate. Please read further....

Living joyfully and being happy are the ultimate goals in life!
I've been a consultant, journalist, educator, life coach, political advocate and organizer.
I moved to Humboldt County a few years ago to live happily ever after, one moment at a time.
I'm a romantic artiste with a sharp, witty, ironic sense of humor --a "fireplace and wine" kind of guy.
I enjoy live theater, concerts, movies, cultural festivals, eating out, dining in and singing.
I've been a gourmet cook -- professionally, at home, and camping.
My favorite off-road vehicles are horses.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working enough to be debt-free and retirement-flush.
Singing, playing, traveling, loving life, and writing.
Enjoying theatre, concerts, movies, cultural festivals, eating out, dining in, camping, fishing and hiking.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem solving. Communicating. Writing. Organizational development. Fundraising. Public relations. Overcoming adversity, and helping others overcome adversity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've never seen myself through someone else's eyes....
Probably my eyes, and my aura.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books about self-improvement, consciousness-raising, parapsychology, and politics. I recently started rebuilding my library with the works of Bucky Fuller, Carlos Castaneda, Baba Ram Dass, Alan Watts, Jiddu Krishnamurti, Hermann Hesse, Samuel Beckett, Carl Jung, Eric Fromm, Stanislav Grof, et. al.

Movies: E.T., What Dreams May Come, The Big Lebowski, Lonesome Dove, too many to list.

Shows & Music: Musical theater, local concerts, stand-up comedy.

My favorite cuisines are Creole, Cajun, French, Mexican and Italian. .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Loving.
2. Being loved.
3. My dachshund, Beanie, who will be 15 years old in February.
4. Cosmic consciousness, paranormal experiences, self-actualization, and my Spirit Guides.
5. The beautiful redwood trees, clean air, and general environment of Humboldt County.
6. Watching the sun set in the Pacific Ocean from the hot tub on my rear deck.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who you are.
And where you are.

I've never been one to kick back and wait for anything to find me.
I know who I am, and what I want, and I go searching for it.
But with no expectations, and no limitations.

Will I ever find you?
And when I do, will I get a real chance to know you?
Will you take the time to know me?....
If not, I'll just keep looking.

I will find you.... or die trying.
But I won't give up.
I won't quit.

And I won't settle for less.
Not again, anyway.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no such thing as a "typical" night for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The books on "Taoist Secrets of Love," by Mantak Chia, are a marvelous way to live and love. Taoist lovemaking, combined with Kundalini Tantra, is the greatest experience life has to offer.
You should message me if
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You resonate with what I've written here, and are interested in meeting me in person. If so, I will come to you.

Until just a few years ago, I lived by the fairy-tale philosophy of love which says “there is one special person out there for you – your soul-mate – who will make you whole.” Once I realized self-actualization I understood the “co-dependency” of this philosophy and recognized it as the reason my relationships failed. Now that I know true happiness comes from within, I can enjoy a soul-mate relationship with any woman who is also self-actualized and happy.

Now, after living alone in Humboldt County for the past few years, I’ve decided to travel to meet a woman with whom I can share a soul-mate relationship. When I find her I am willing to relocate, but I will also keep my home here as a resort to retreat to once in a while.

For me, the most important and attractive feature is a woman’s character, which is reflected in her eyes, her smile, her attitude, and her aura. Next is brains, by which I mean the ability to think, be self-sufficient, independent, and confident.

I travel all over the nation for business, at least once a month, so I’m available to meet anywhere. However, I take this medium so seriously that I start with 99% matches and only go down to 95%. If you and I are less than a 95% match, please explain why you think we would be compatible and should meet. You can increase your match percentage by scrolling though the questions I’ve answered and answer more yourself. Also look at the tests I’ve taken and take some of them, too.

Thank you for reading my profile,