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SamIwas

45 / M / straight / Single

Sacramento, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am Idealistic, Irrational, and Exuberant.

My Self-Summary

I would rather be judged by somebody else. What I think of myself is of little relevance. No? Plus, I really don't care what others think of me. Not high on that list, you know?

I am however often called an idealist, and that is usually meant as an insult. Again, doesn't bother me.

Right now what bothers me is writing at least 100 characters only to find where the section is to change me sex from female to male. I never chose female. Trust me. Hopefully this is fixed before any of you all read this MANDATORY 100 words. :-)

Smile--even when you don't want to.

Not asked of me yet:

I have never been married, and I have no children. I would like both of those factors to change. Yes, even at my 45 years of age. (Idealist, not Realist)

RE: Pictures

What should I do....post the best one I have so that I can improve my chances of meeting someone (female)? Or maybe use a picture less than adequate so there is no high expectation if I ever do meet anyone from this site? I know what most do, but I assure you, I am unlike most anyone you know. In a good way, you know? :-)

Also, all those psychological tests you may have opted to take? Sure they are fun, but I do not take any of them seriously, especially if being matched by a computer!

Lastly, I like transparency. So you should know that I once ran a profitable dating/matchmaking site. I started it with a gal I met online through a local BBS. If you know what a BBS is, you get 5 stars in my book. If you do not know what a BBS is, you were not active on your computer in the late 80's early 1990s. But you need not earn 5 stars to impress me LOL. (Like you care!) Psssttt. I don't even have a book.

What I’m doing with my life

Wasting away in Margarettaville? I hope not. Currently I am hell bent on acquiring knowledge. I didn't get my Bachelor's degree until I was 40. At that point I decided seeking knowledge was actually fun. I actually look forward to/enjoyed going to "most all" of my classes, It usually depending on the Professor. Can't learn much from a Professor who preaches his/her views. Just the facts--I have my own mind to determine what I hear.

So what I’m doing with my life? What the hell kind of question is that? Oh well, I shall answer: I am trying to get enough people to talk me out of going to law school.

I’m really good at

I know a little bit about most "things," but I don't know alot about 1 "thing."

Okay, I agree, that did not answer the question. I am really good at BSing my way through all these questions! If you want get to know me (I'm hoping there are a few of you left)you will not learn that from this site. That I can tell you.

The first things people usually notice about me

Easy one. I've heard this a lot. My shyness is typically responsible for people to think of me as a snob, cocky, or the holier than thou type person. "stuck up" used to be the term many moons ago. I assure you, I am none of the above.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Take too long to read.

Movies: Underdog type plots--which puts Rocky at the top.

Music: I still listen to "soft rock" and the genre of music when U2 was hot. Since then, I'd rather listen to talk radio than music.

If it rhymes, there is good chance I won't like that music. If yelling and shouting rhymes about killing the police is on the radio--off goes that radio. (Long way to say I despise rap/hip hop). I don't even consider that music.

Food: I can cook :-)

The six things I could never do without

1) toothbrush
2) My diet coke habit
3) water?
4) Food/calories?
5) My truck, to get away when ever I can.
6) Growing old without starting a family.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Things that need to be changed, and if I can help, I will. This boils down mostly to politics and the law. One, I am not a big fan of.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working--Then I spend an hour working on the cure for cancer. That last part is not true. Sounds good tho.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Doesn't this site have a PM function? Jeeeezzzz :-)

You should message me if

You want to. That was easy. I'll respond to all messages.

You should not message me if you are only going to use my picture as a means of screening those you choose to form a relationship with.

If you ask about how much money I make--You will get an appropriate answer. So be careful what you ask for while messaging me. Again, you still will get a response. You have my word. Wonder how much that is worth in gold?