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39 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 25
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Vietnamese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am looking for someone who is fun, responsible, active, and down to earth. I don't take myself too seriously (despite my somewhat serious looking profile pic), and I wouldn't want a date to do so either.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try to balance being easy going and detail oriented :) . It's part of my job of herding cats/software developers.

Otherwise I've always tried to be well rounded/eclectic in my activities. Here are some things I do:

- I try to play the accordion.
- I play/watch sports.
- I own corsets (and no I don't wear one while playing the accordion. That's just not practical :)
- I drink whiskey (I often I do this while playing the accordion)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
indoor cycling/spinning, cooking (I make a mean pho), sewing, sarcasm. I just started to get into mountain biking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh, eyes, and maybe hair. And that I can be both quirky and elegant, but I am usually the former. Some people say silly is sexier than serious, and I am all about that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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100 Years of Solitude, Great Gatsby (book not movie), In Cold Blood, Tolkien, Big Lebowski and most Coen Bros movies, Wes Anderson movies, Talking Heads, Pixies, Wilco, Gillian Welch, Neko Case, Cat Power, Bowie, Prince, Julieta Venegas, Los Amigos Invisibles, Elton John, Ryan Adams, Tom Waits, Pogues, Fiona Apple, Regina Spektor, Mazzy Star. I hate the word foodie (aren't we all foodies?), but I am a good cook and enjoy well made food of any type (dives and high end).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family recipes, dogs, sewing machine, whiskey, family, friends (16+ years in the Bay Area, and I love my diverse support network).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My recently completed trip to Roatan, Honduras...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing one or a couple of many diverse things: casual salsa dancing (I am not one of those serious dancers), enjoying a good drink, watching a foreign movie, watching a game, spinning, crafting, cooking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wish I could be a hobbit. Small, respected, reliable, unexpectedly strong, have cute homes, good cooks, eat 7 meals a day, live long lives. What's not to love? Don't worry; I don't have hairy feet.
You should message me if
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We have some overlap among favorite music, books, etc. I am finding that's been a good sign of getting along. A little swagger, geekiness, and fitness would be cool, too. And hey it's just a date...