I'm here looking for a partner - someone who will become my best friend and fulfilling lover.
You must live in Melbourne, be a non-smoker, not have young children living with you nor want kids, and though slightly cuddly is fine, not be very overweight.
For those still reading, I hope you will share most of my values and some of my interests. I think it is healthy if we have the freedom within the relationship to have some of our own interests, and so don’t expect you to share all my interests, or me to share all of yours.
I've previously enjoyed several 'significant' relationships (one of which lasted ten years), so I have high, but realistic, expectations of the happiness of a great long-term relationship.
Before that I worked at the Telstra Research Labs for 25 years (my last role was managing a team researching broadband services).
I think conservation is very important (I'm a life member of ACF). I was the Greens candidate for Higgins in the 2007 federal election - this was a great adventure!
At the moment I have chosen not to own a car (I might buy one again one day). I'm financially secure and fully own my own home.
Movies: I love arthouse, cult and foreign (eg Kubrick, Lynch, Greenaway), but most of my collection is more mainstream. Recently I have been enjoying seeing some of my old favorites on blu-ray (Matrix, The Godfather. Lord of the Rings) and some Blu-ray TV (Mad Men, Firefly). I don't watch commercial TV - just the ABC and SBS.
My home theatre is such a good experience that I now find that I enjoy movies at home more than at the cinema.
Music: I have a huge CD collection ranging from Early, Baroque (Bach), Classical (Mozart, Beethoven), Contemporary (Glass, Nyman) ... to Jazz, World, and Rock (King Crimson, Porcupine Tree). Rock and opera are amazing on Blu-ray.
Food: I love eating out at local restaurants (esp Indian, Japanese and Thai) and sharing a bottle of wine (I'm a red man).
2 - meaningful sharing of intimacy, sensuality, erotic fun and sexual pleasures,
3 - my huge collection of CDs, DVDs, and blu-rays,
4 - good food,
5 - my bicycle (with no car I need this to get around!)
6 - the internet (both for work and pleasure)
Answering the questions on OkCupid depends greatly on what you are looking for. This profile is what I want from a rest-of-life partner - so things like us having shared values and you not having young children or being a smoker become very important (though I would be much more open minded when seeking a friend).
Life has its surprises, so I'm more open to meeting people than this profile suggests. If you would like to meet me please send me a message as at the moment I'm not active on this website and so I won't see your profile unless you message me. We never know what might happen :)
I prefer to meet in real-life fairly quickly (so that we can get a feel for mutual chemistry). Of course I'm happy to message until you feel comfortable about meeting. But I don't' want to form a cyber-relationship.
As I don't own a car I hope you will be happy to meet up either near me (Chadstone / Carnegie) or in the city.
I've found that meeting at a local restaurant works well, and even if there is no mutual chemistry there is usually a very interesting conversation. So I hope you will feel relaxed about meeting me.
I look forward to hearing from you - this may be the beginning of a beautiful relationship :)