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Sambito2013

36 / M / Straight / Single

London, United Kingdom

His Details

Last Online
Today – 10:10am
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Ok, rapido cupido, do something nice this year. I could describe me or you, but the motto for this year is life is too short. I didn't make any New Year resolutions because I feel like they are a waste of time. The mission is to continue being myself but to be more present and aware. You don't need the threat of the Mayan apocalypse to turn your life around or continue on the path to self actualisation and enlightenment. I laugh, I like to dance when the opportunity arises, read a book or two, bake rye bread and german plum cakes and cycle crazy distances and talk about the big themes, whilst laughing at the small things. I don't do cookie cutter life patterns and focus more on the process or journey.
What I’m doing with my life
I do the usual whilst thinking about the extraordinary. Listening to MOOJI.
I’m really good at
Trying to bake bread and massages, esoteric conversations
interspersed with non sequiturs. Talking smack. Emotional intelligence and communicating, sometimes it's abstract but it's important to say and understand what you really feel even if it's just some hormonal rant. It's you though, and not me, right? Kissing is also good.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
hmmm tricky. Rilke, Cunningham, Amis, Hustvedt, Woolf, Carson McCullers, Auster, Murakami, Jelinek, Saramago, Mulisch, Nooteboom, Achebe, Chimamanda Adichie. Films, italian neo realism, Pasolini, Almodovar, Woody Allen, independent cinema. Dance, Pina Bausch, William Forsythe, Michael Clark. This American Life TeD & MOOJI. Radio 4 interspersed with Jazz FM.
Food? Thai, Japanese, African, Italian, French. At home Afro beats, high life, Jazz or opera if am cooking, outside anything danceable. favourite pieces songs by Schubert. piano, Beethoven. Cello, and minimalist pieces like Satie & Cage.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Travel. I think there's so much to learn from other cultures. Cuba, Thailand, Kenya, Brazil, Vietnam. Why not Australia?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I find the idea that A Listers can search by attractiveness and body type quite dispiriting.

ENFP - The Champion
You scored 64% I to E, 11% N to S, 24% F to T, and 58% J to P!
Your type is known as the Champion type, which is part of the larger group called idealists. Nothing occurs that does not have some deep and ethical significance in your eyes. You see life as an exciting drama. You are very charismatic, yet tend to be too harsh on yourself for not being as genuine as you think you should be. 3% of the population shares your type.
As a romantic partner, you need to talk about what is going on in your life. You are a strong supporter for your partner's efforts to grow and change and be happy. You need to feel that same support from your partner. Expressive, optimistic, and curious, you are eager to enjoy new experiences with your partner, whom you wish to be your confidant and soul mate, as well as play mate. You are uncomfortable sharing negative emotion, though, and tend to withdraw from confrontation and process your feelings privately. You feel most loved when your partner appreciates your creativity, accepts your uniqueness, and sees you as the compassionate person you are. You need to hear your partner tell you how much you mean to them and would love if they did thoughtful spontaneous things to demonstrate it.
Your group summary: idealists (NF)
Your type summary: ENFP
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You like New World wines & can stay awake and talk past midnight if the talk is good; it's not going to freak you out if I leave the toilet seat up every once in a while & we do not have to sync our calendars to arrange a date night. You don't mind films with subtitles. You are kind. Most of all, it's the kindness.