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SamhainIA

34 / M / Straight / Available

Coralville, Iowa

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:14am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am part of a commited but open polyamorous relationship, And I love it. turtlerogue is my main partner in crime.

I enjoy getting my geek on, I love to read science fiction and fantasy novels, watch bad (and good) sci-fi movies and play board games and RPGs of all kinds.

I spent a couple years living on the west coast (California and Oregon) before moving back to be closer to family. I loved it there, but love my family much more.

I am also a computer aficionado, Programming and hardware come easily to me. I work as a programmer and "data janitor" ( I clean up other people's messes )
What I’m doing with my life
I am working as a programmer for an awesome company! We make Science Happen!

In my off time I'm playing a new video game or remodeling something or making art.

I also spend some time organizing local events, I usually have some brand in the fire regarding one event or another.
I’m really good at
Fixing Computers, making things out of metals, 3-d conceptualization (for art stuff) thumbing my nose at proper grammar cause it changes from day to day and I will capitalize the things i think are Important. house construction projects.

Listening to people, paying attention to my surroundings.
The first things people usually notice about me
... hrm possibly my smile when I'm in a good mood. Possibly the sound of muttering under my breath if im not.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(a small sample)

Authors:
Patrick Rothfuss - Name of the wind
Scott Lynch - Lies of Locke Lamora
Terry Pratchett - Night Watch, Nation, all of it really
Neil Gaiman - Sandman! American Gods
Ursula LeGuin - Left hand of Darkness, the Dispossesed, Earthsea (all of her fiction really, she has explored some subjects not pertinent to me as a guy so not so much)
Jim Butcher - Dresden Files

Movies
Dr Strangelove, I <3 this movie
Princess Bride
Hudson Hawk, something about Bruce Willis singing is too funny
V for Vendetta, Alan Moore, deserves to have his visions portrayed this well all the time.

Music
Postal Service & Modest Mouse "recent" ish music that I like, I'm not sure why I like it other than it emotionally moves me somehow
Gogol Bordello - how can you really go wrong with gypsy-punk-ska? Eugene Hutz is pretty awesome.
Dropkick Murphys - Flogging Molly - I'm on a Celtic/ Punk kick
Me First and the Gimme Gimmes - part of my heart lies with covers songs something about taking something and making it your own that just makes like it.
Johnny Cash - From covers, i picked up Cash after hearing his recording of Hurt, and then listed to the rest of that album (American Man IV) and then picked up everything else he has done, I will totally sing along to almost all of his songs, something more than usual seems to come out of his music
Wylde Nept! - Local band Celtic -Rock Pretty awesome!

Food Is good
The six things I could never do without
A Computer - It seems like I practically live online
My wife - she keeps me realistic, and pushes me to challenge myself
Love - Its a huge thing ya know?
Freedom - A simple idea, but it weighs very heavily in my mind somedays, I recognize the military is needed but I still dont agree with it and I know I'll never "grok" it
Artistic ability- if the day came and I found i was completely bereft of my creativity, or somehow was prevented from excercising it... I think I would have a hard time going on.
Memory - A person is the sum of their experiences...When I totally lose a memory that means its no longer part of me and thats kinda weird in my head.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
It depends on the time of day, most of the time I spend my thinking on what im doing, so in general i'm thinking about work, but that is a Boring answer, so i'll say that the rest of the time i think about gaming, sex, politics, and solving the worlds problems in new and interesting ways (in no particular order)
On a typical Friday night I am
gaming, relaxing at home, remodeling, or out at a bar with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like really really bad sci fi movies, and I'm not ashamed of it
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You want to talk about books or movies, your interested in my (our) take on Polyamory/ Polyfidelity, or if you might be interested enough to find out more.