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  • Ages 24–33
  • Near me
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Last online
Yesterday – 8:33am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
My self-summary
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I earned the nickname "truth bomb" in grad school for my brutal honesty. I am loved by the kids I work with in the education system. I am an only child and an aspiring renaissance man. Sometimes I feel startling similarities with the life of Larry David in Curb Your Enthusiasm. Jewish blood and Nordic features. Very ADHD and people have said I'm "hard to read," but all you have to do is ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to have fun, and not be too serious- I work in education and just finished my first year post graduate school. I'm a School Psychologist, which is different from a counselor, and I've really enjoyed my work and the many roles I play at my schools.

This last year settling back into Seattle life has been a lot about arts, friends, and more intentional use of free time. I do a lot of drawing and painting, and have been blessed with great friends in the artist community who constantly inspire, support, and entertain me. I go to museum and gallery openings frequently. Trying to get out for more theater- just saw Threesome at ACT. I try to do close readings of literature, poetry, and science or philosophy texts. I also enjoy science fiction and read the New Yorker a lot.

I'm not obsessed with fitness but I do go to the gym a few times a week, try to ride my bike, and keep a home yoga practice going. I love my friends and family, but I'm also somewhat introverted so I like my down time too. Life was crazy busy the last few years so I'm getting back in the hanit of spontaneity, hobbies, and relaxing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a third wheel
Making to-do lists
APA style
Feng shui
The "great outdoors"
road trips
The first things people usually notice about me
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Goofy smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Milan Kundera
Jonathan Lethem
The Dune series
Poetry- Stephens, Williams, Rilke, Pound

Wes Anderson- current fav is GBH
David Lynch
I'll watch a lot of bad movies too, and usually enjoy them, especially rom-coms

It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Homeland, Boardwalk Empire, True Detective, GOT, The Americans

Shabazz Palaces and THEEsatisfaction
Arthur Russell and MF Doom
Tom Waits and Cat Stevens
Sun Ra and Pat Martino
Flying Lotus, Jel, and Daedelus
Erykah Badu and Talking Heads

Beer and pizza
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Steam room
Room with a view
Lint roller
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
radical behaviorism
deliberate desire
stars and space
All the crap in my apartment
social propriety
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The same thing we do every night, Pinky- try to take over the world!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will cry during most movies at some point, I'm just a sucker for it- even Marvel super hero movies can get me.
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