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Mellowmurmur

23 Copenhagen, Denmark Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:17am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Danish (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Poor Computer Sciences student at University of Copenhagen with a liberal* outlook at life (*not talking about politics here).
Am usually more loyal than what's good for me - and hope to make more friends sharing this problem.
Most importantly: I am queer as fuck and so are many of my best friends.

I identify as bisexual/pansexual, but I have a tendency towards women and other persons with certain personality traits that are commonly viewed as feminine, and have recently been so picky with guys I am strongly considering dropping my identification with bisexuality in favor of "homoflexible" lesbian.
It's just... I guess I don't really trust guys anymore. Which is unfair to the few all-right guys out there, but I prefer happiness over millimetre-justice.

I identify as female, but coming from the same planet as David Bowie, Tilda Swinton and PJ Harvey I have an androgynous body and generally do not act or appear ultra-feminine except for special occasions. I still embrace a few traits commonly viewed as masculine. Very few, though.

I would be browsing okcupid primarily for new friends, and then the opportunity for more than friendship is a concern for later. I am polyromantic and I see a girl currently, but she has someone already and it's more of a really close friendship. We are both prepared that we may have to take a break - possibly indefinitely - if I meet someone amazing who needs that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am transgender and in puberty, so my appearance is changing drastically. Among other things.

I've spent one year living in Taiwan and thus, I speak Chinese. One day I might do it again. Or stay somewhere else. I really would like to see Japan one day.

Currently I am struggling with university education and transitioning at the same time, which proves to be slightly difficult in a transmisogynistic country like Denmark. I feel I am mostly tolerated, but rarely respected. So I'm looking for more friends who care and understand. I thought I had plenty of friends already, which I do - but few of them are people I trust deeply.
In time I will work on a decent income, nice place to live, and eventually at least one loving partner. Possibly monogamous, possibly not. I haven't decided yet and don't feel a strong need for either of the lifestyles.

Also I dream of living in a big house where everyone is a queer feminist.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing silly, useless computer programs.
Telling unusual real life stories.
I can be rather cheeky when in a good mood.
And I seem to be somewhat good at hiding my insecurities and seeming like I have done for many years things I do for the first time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My nose is shaped like a penis.
(I was quite astonished when P_Albert illuminated to me this fact.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hobbies: Live Action Roleplaying, Pen & Paper, DSLR Photography
Movies: Ghost In The Shell (1995)
Shows: Battlestar Galactica, Orange Is The New Black
Books: Haruki Murakami, Various Sci-fi and Fantasy, Gender Studies, Sexuality, Personal Development
Music: The Eden House, PJ Harvey, Stars, Blue Foundation, Goldfrapp, David Bowie, Caravan Palace, Numerous Electronica and Psytrance Artists
People: Janet Mock, Laverne Cox, Judith Butler, Jena Malone, Tilda Swinton (David Bowie), Katee Sackhoff, Holger Bech Nielsen
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Smooth hair
Something to hug at night
The gentle murmur of airports and quiet cafés
Lychee juice
Tomboys and all folks alike
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How many people get scared away because of my polyromantic or transgender identity and if I have to hide it in order for people to give me a chance.
(I don't think people are bad for staying clear because of those things. They're things we were all brought up to know as wrong and depraved.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been in open and polygamous relationships. I have experience in BDSM and other kinks. I have experienced the abuse and sudden wrath of a borderline (ex)lover. All of these things feels less intimate for me to say than browsing through photos of my old self.
I'm rarely shy if people ask with an open-minded attitude. But be respectful about me being transgender. I'm also a person aside from that, and I am not very judging but also not stupid.
You should message me if
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You like to take the initiative once in a while.
Are a clever, academically minded person.
You think I'm not a total freak or feel at least as freaky yourself.
Invite me somewhere.

If you've read at least 50% of my text and still think I'm alright, you're welcome to write. If not, don't.

Also - casual sex does not mean indiscriminate sex.