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Mellowmurmur

22 F Copenhagen, Denmark

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Danish (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Poor Computer Sciences student at University of Copenhagen with a liberal* outlook at life (*not talking about politics here).
Am usually more loyal than what's good for me - and hope to make more friends sharing this problem.
Most importantly: I am queer as fuck and so are many of my best friends.

I am pansexual, but I have a tendency towards women and other persons with certain personality traits that are usually viewed as feminine. The reason why my profile says "Gay" is too many guys who seems to wrongly assume that my main purpose with using this site is looking for random sex with illiterates who objectify me.

I identify as female, but I have an androgynous body and generally do not act or appear ultra-feminine. I still embrace a few traits usually viewed as masculine.

I would be browsing okcupid primarily for new friends, and then the opportunity for more than friendship is a concern for later, although I currently am much too low on spontaneous acts of intimacy from people I trust such as hugs.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an mtf transsexual and currently in the early stages of transitioning. (Means that I am in puberty, so my apperance is changing drastically. Among other things.)

I've spent one year living in Taiwan and thus, I speak Chinese. One day I might do it again.

Currently I am struggling with university education and transition at the same time, which proves to be slightly difficult in a transmisogynistic country like Denmark. I am mostly tolerated, but rarely respected. Not surprisingly I am experiencing moderate depression and gender dysphoria, so currently I'm working on ways to fix or handle those as well.
In time I will work on a decent income, nice place to live, and eventually at least one loving partner. Possibly monogamous, possibly not. I haven't decided yet and don't feel a strong need for either of the lifestyles.
I’m really good at
Writing silly, useless computer programs.
Telling unusual real life stories.
I can be rather cheeky when in a good mood.
And I seem to be somewhat good at hiding my insecurities and seeming like I have done for many years things I do for the first time.
The first things people usually notice about me
My nose is shaped like a penis.
(I was quite astonished when P_Albert illuminated to me this fact.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hobbies: Live Roleplaying Games, Pen & Paper, DSLR Photography
Movies: Ghost In The Shell (1995)
Shows: Battlestar Galactica, Orange Is The New Black
Books: Haruki Murakami, Various Sci-fi and Fantasy, Gender Studies, Sexuality, Personal Development
Music: The Eden House, Stars, Blue Foundation, Goldfrapp, David Bowie, Caravan Palace, Numerous Electronica and Psytrance Artists
People: Janet Mock, Laverne Cox, Judith Butler, Jena Malone, Tilda Swinton (David Bowie), Katee Sackhoff, Holger Bech Nielsen
The six things I could never do without
Smooth hair
Something to hug at night
The gentle murmur of airports and quiet cafés
Lychee juice
Tomboys and all folks alike
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been in a polyamorous relationship. I have experience in BDSM and other kinks. I have experienced the abuse and coldhearted wrath of a borderline (ex)lover. All of these things feels less intimate for me to say than browsing through photos of my old self.
I'm rarely shy if people ask with an open-minded attitude. But be respectful about me being transgender. I'm also a person aside from that, and I am not very judging but also not stupid.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 19–26
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You like to take the initiative once in a while.
Are a clever, academically minded person.
You think I'm not a total freak or feel at least as freaky yourself.
Invite me somewhere.

If you've read at least 50% of my text and still think I'm alright, you're welcome to write. If not, don't.