Am usually more loyal than what's good for me - and hope to make more friends sharing this problem.
Most importantly: I am queer as fuck and so are many of my best friends.
I am pansexual, but I have a tendency towards women and other persons with certain personality traits that are usually viewed as feminine. The reason why my profile says "Gay" is too many guys who seems to wrongly assume that my main purpose with using this site is looking for random sex with illiterates who objectify me.
I identify as female, but I have an androgynous body and generally do not act or appear ultra-feminine. I still embrace a few traits usually viewed as masculine.
I would be browsing okcupid primarily for new friends, and then the opportunity for more than friendship is a concern for later, although I currently am much too low on spontaneous acts of intimacy from people I trust such as hugs.