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45 Chicago, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:43pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Hello and thanks for stopping by.

First of I am 46 not 45.

Originally from France I have made Chicago my home since 1992.

I am a sweet human being who enjoys a healthy lifestyle. I strive to challenge myself mentally and keep myself physically, emotionally, and spiritually fit.

I am athletic and enjoy being active, and seek someone who values these things himself. I am adventurous, ambitious, tenacious, loving, responsible, passionate, loyal, and affectionate. I enjoy talking and listening, love to travel, explore the outdoors, hiking, backpacking, bike riding, and tennis. I also like staying in to snuggle and watch a movie.
I practice yoga and meditate regularly.

Laughing and being silly is important to me; I appreciate and welcome a partner's sense of humour and silliness. I am usually high energy and not always patient, but am taking my time with that :-) Myers Briggs says I am an ISTJ.

My tastes in music are eclectic.

Movies: “Tell no one” was fantastic, Midnight Express, Missing, The Year of Living Dangerously, Indies, Foreign movies, drama, the life of others, action, etc.

Series: Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Boardwalk Empire, The Wire, Bloodline, House of Cards, Lie to me, The Tudors, Spartacus, Blacklist, Damages, Spiral, Walking dead (Yeah, I know never thought I would get into it..)

Books: Richard Bach, Paolo Coelho, Carlos Castaneda, Mitch Albom, the second brain, non-fiction. Pema Chodron, etc.

I am looking to date and would ultimately like to be in a healthy, long-term relationship with a man who is attentive, reliable, curious about the world, affectionate, loyal, emotionally and financially secure (as in fiscally responsible, stable, self-supporting). I'd like to meet a man who knows himself yet continues to seek and learn more. Honest and open communication is important to me. I am attracted to a man who goes after what he wants in life and is open to nurturing a relationship with me.

Warm regards,

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Continue to grow personally and professionally. Learning to be in the moment. Trying new things. Planning my next trek. Looking for my last relationship :-), that imperfect right man for me :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a trustworthy friend and partner.
Extending a helping hand.
Used to play competitive tennis.
Wholehearted laughter! :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Beside my eyes and smiles, regularly been told that my pictures don't do me justice!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything from Paulo Coelho, Richard Bach, Bukowski, don Miguel Ruiz, Mitch Albom, Freakonomics, Pema Chodron, Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart.
Non-fiction and some fiction.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tangibles outside of water, food, oxygen, and shelter:
Any device that allows me to communicate and be reached instantly (for the purpose of being in touch with my loves ones)
Money (means to an end)
A pen

Physical activity
Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Remembering to enjoy the moment. What life will bring next and what I will bring to it. My family overseas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends, at the gym, or concerts in the park, relaxing at home with my cat Kilimanjaro. Cooking. Summer dance.
You should message me if
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You can read between the lines and think you get a sense of the woman I am (as imperfect as I may be), and it resonates with your own values, beliefs, and goals.