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45 F Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hello and thanks for stopping by :),

I am a decent human being who enjoys and strives to lead a healthy life style, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I am in reasonable shape and seek someone who is too.

I am a ISTJ on the Meyer Briggs scale.

Like many, I love to laugh and will appreciate my partner's sense of humour and silliness as there is a silly side to me as well.
I am usually high energy and not always patient...!

I am adventurous, rather ambitious, tenacious, loving, responsible, passionate, loyal, and affectionate. I enjoy stimulating conversations, love to travel, love the outdoors, but also enjoys staying in with my special someone.

I am looking for a man who is attentive, responsible, interested, affectionate, loyal, emotionally and financially secure. A man who knows himself, a good communicator (can talk about his feelings), goes after what he wants, and works at the relationship.

I am looking to date and ultimately be in a healthy relationship that will lead to marriage.

Thanks for reading. :)

Ps: for those men who want to meet right away i understand that most men may be "designed" more visually prone but this is not how my brain works. I like to exchange a couple of emails first, speak on the phone at least once, and then I will know whether or not i want to meet. That being said have you ever considered or experienced that as you get to know someone, sometimes they become really attractive? I have.
Same goes for those who think that intimacy starts in the bedroom and ends there. I hold the "general" belief that real intimacy starts outside the bedroom and then leads you there.
What I’m doing with my life
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Growing personally and professionally. Learning to be in the moment and practicing being anxious about nothing. Looking for my last relationship :), that imperfect right man for me :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a trustworthy friend and partner. Planning, doing what I say, taking action, addressing issues, expressing my needs. This is what comes to my mind, right now today :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, my eyes, my accent, and that I am fit. Recently, was told my hands and long fingers!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything from Paulo Coelho, Richard Bach, Bukowski, don Miguel Ruiz, Mitch Albom, Freakonomics, Pema Chodron, Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart.
Non-fiction and some fiction.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tangibles outside of water, food, oxygen, and shelter:
Any device that allows me to communicate and be reached instantly (for the purpose of being in touch with my loves ones)
Money (means to an end)
A pen

Physical activity
Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Remembering to enjoy the moment. What life will bring next and what I will bring to it. My family overseas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends, at the gym, or concerts in the park, relaxing at home with my cat Kilimanjaro. Cooking. Summer dance.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 40–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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You can read between the lines and think you get a sense of the woman I am (as imperfect as I may be), and it resonates with your own values, beliefs, and goals.