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SandyJo48

51 / F / Straight / Single

Austin, Texas

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:03pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
A Yippppeeeee update: No more 70 hour work weeks. I am working on balance again. So making it a priority to find a wonderful guy to just let go with.

I believe it is correct to say that the way I live my life and am is a dichotomy, I can be quite conservative at work, love my button downs and loafers , then the imp in me comes out and dresses me in silks, loves to dress sexy, or as a sparkly bohemian hippy girl and wants to dance by the drum circle........ at times, I am wanting you to take care of me, Pedicures, manicures, and massages, and could be seen as a girlie/girl, ,and at the same time, love t-shirt and jeans, walking into dangerous experiences to help others does not phase me, being very independent and doing it myself through the struggles, being around all types of folks and participating in edgy and non-traditional experiences is just as much me. I am confident and aggressive about who I am and express it openly.... and at the same time, keep can keep it hidden behind closed doors .

If you do not have a photo on OKC... I really am not interested. Fair is fair. I have photos and am revealing myself and so should you. My photos are very current always. Gosh, that sounds a bit negative. Whoops, don't mean for it to be. I also am not interested in meeting married men.
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I've have been described as a free spirit who is caring, loving, kind, silly/goofy, and young at heart. I enjoy children, animals and
nature. I adore very intelligent and humorous men. I believe that there are miracles all around us if we just
open our eyes. I am a bit shy at first, but once I'm comfortable
can be quite bold. Sort of an introvert with extrovert traits. I am
an INFP (The last time that I took the test.) I guess you could say
that I'm unique, quirky and not easily put in a box. I enjoy
wearing jeans most of the time, but a reason to dress up is fun.
The type of food or wine I drink does not matter to me, it is the
conversation and companionship with the meal that matters - the
experience. I love music, all types, and dancing. I'm looking for
someone to share fun times and adventures and who wants and is able participate in a very healthy. I am looking for someone to take me by the hand and show me the way to some very exciting experiences. I have a lot of fantasies that are waiting to be explored. Who knows where spirit will lead us. I'm game and open to new experiences.

Interesting Quirky things about me:

I love Hello Kitty. I study Shamanism. I drive a Mini Cooper named Dahlila. And Tequila shots are fun every so often. I hug trees. I have not watchedTV more than 10 times in the past 2 years. When I watched regularly, my favorite shows were Big Bang Theory, Reno 911, Weeds, and True Blood. I saw "Wicked" and love it so much, I cried when thanking my roommate for the ticket.

Places I wanna go ... maybe with you....
I really wanna go to Flipside or Burning man. I am working on manifesting that ... To hug the Redwoods in California, and after working such long hours ... I am ready for the beach.... a week-end in the hill country....
What I’m doing with my life
Finding out who I am away from my grown sons. That is very exciting. I am trying to incorporate some form of physical activity everyday, yoga, dancing, and walking, are my favorites. Also spirituality is a daily, hourly, minute by minute thing for me. I meditate daily and have found that the practice is transforming. I am hoping to add a bit more travel and am always seeking new experiences. Pushing my limits.
I’m really good at
Helping out during a crisis, being empathetic, taking a bad situation and finding the positive, and finding the lessons in the good and the bad things that happen. Being super flexible and open to whatever the universe brings to me. Forgiving and letting go.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. I've been told that folks notice my smile and warm presence. They probably notice that I'm a bit overly talkative when nervous...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read all the time, multiple books at a time. I enjoy Historical Fiction, Epics, Mystical/Magical Fantasy, and non-fiction about Spirituality or Psychology. I hate to admit it but I"m loving all the trashy Vampire series that are out right now. My Two Favorite Books - Kite Runner and Poisonwood Bible.

Movies - Again off the top of my head, Joe versus that Volcano, Office Space, What about Bob?, Volunteers, Avatar, Pay it Forward, When Harry met Sally. I don't care for slasher or shoot em up films.

Music - Decemberists, Ray Lamontagne, Damien Rice, Christina Perry, Train, Nelly Furtado, Snow Patrol, Sarah Jaffe, Katy Perry, Patti Griffin, Van Morrison, Rolling Stones, Marvin Gaye, Donovan, Alanis Morrisette, AC/DC, The Mavericks. Journey, The Cars, The Black Crowes, Counting Crows, Collective Soul, Tracy Chapman, Pink, Beyonce,Old Country, BeeGees, 70's Rock, some current. I like all types of music.

Food - Whatever is good. It is the experience that matters.
The six things I could never do without
1. My 2 young adult sons;
2. My pets;
3. Romance ;
4. My friendships and family;
5. Someone to make me do wild and crazy things;
6. Music to dance to and sing along;
7 I really have one more - Nature and spirit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This crazy journey that I'm on. I notice how spirit seems to answer prayers/ requests, you just have to really be alert and watchful. I spend a lot of time thinking about how I want to live the second half of my life full of joy and warm loving companionship.
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing is typical with me. Ok, well, probably somethings are, however, I can't think of "typical" thing that I do on a Friday Night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll tell you if I meet you. I think that would be more fun.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 35–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you are interested in sharing fun times, new experiences/ adventures with possibly a bit of romance, then please contact me and let's see where that takes us.