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SantaCruzJoe13

25 M Santa Cruz, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–27
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:14pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Japanese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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First of all, as this is crucial for many women and so should be cleared up right away, I don't fit, nor do I desire to fit, the definition of "masculine" as it is often defined in our society--meaning that I don't value aggression for its own sake, and I don't see any point in trying to exert my power over others. Many women, though they may be reluctant to admit it, are turned on by dominant men--men who look like they could cause pain to other men if they were to want or need to. I am certainly not against self-defense as an exception to the rule of not hurting others. But in general the last thing this world needs is more aggression, violence, and power-seeking. I'm trying to make myself and my life into a counter-example to the ruthless self-furthering that is dooming this planet.

So if you're looking for the kind of man for whom violence and aggression are general rules of life, look elsewhere. My masculinity, my strength, comes from elsewhere--from my will, my loyalty, my convictions, my ability to stick up for what is right, and my lean frame.

I'm Pisces to a T, and, according to the Myers Briggs Personality Test, I am an INFJ--the rarest of all types :0

I am looking for a genuinely kindhearted woman whose values and interests mirror my own, whom I wish to forge a deep, intimate connection with--both on a physical (sexual) and emotional level. I want to be loved and accepted for who I am. I have a lot of love to give and am looking for someone whom I can adore and shower with romance and affection. If you think that is "creepy," well please move on. While I may be an old-fashioned Romantic in that sense, I also love passionate, austere, strongly individual women with firm convictions who can hold their own in intellectual discussions.
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated from San Jose State University in May of 2012, with a BA in Creative Writing. Since then I've been trying to get my work noticed and to start making some money from it. I just finished editing a novel, which I hope to sell soon, and I am planning to begin graduate school for my teaching credential this fall (2014), with my goal ultimately being to teach High School English.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well, writing is my most prominent talent. I mostly write screenplays, but also the occasional poem, short story, or non-fiction piece.

Hmm.

Bringing peace and laughter into the lives of people around me.

Also, I'm pretty good at Pool. Not bad at Bocci Ball either ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically--those large, Piscean eyes, haha.

Personality-wise--my quirky, calm, and often absentminded demeanor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:
I mostly love the classics, but am always looking for a contemporary work that can speak to me in the same way that the greats do.

The Song of Songs, The Odyssey, Antigone, Medea, Marlowe's Faust, Hamlet, King Lear, Macbeth, Don Quixote, Gulliver's Travels, The Rape of The Lock, The plays of Moliere, Prometheus Bound, Shelley's Poetry, Keats, Wordsworth, Frankenstein, Wuthering Heights, Jane Eyre, Leaves of Grass, Moby Dick, Poe, Madame Bovary, The Death of Ivan Ilych, The Brothers Karamazov, Middlemarch, Great Expectations, The plays of Ibsen, Ulysses, Yeats' poetry, Lovecraft, The Catcher in The Rye, Huxley, In Cold Blood, A Confederacy of Dunces, Blood Meridian, Clive Barker, Stephen King

For Philosophy, I find Jesus Christ (Sermon on The Mount), Epicurus, Camus, Emerson, Aristotle, and Jiddu Krishnamurti to be my closest kin.

Film:
I love Westerns, horror films, 90's comedies, quirky films, and cult films. Wes Anderson, Quentin Tarantino, Stanley Kubrick, Kevin Smith, Sergio Leone, Martin Scorsese, John Woo.

Cool Hand Luke, The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Once Upon a Time in The West, A Clockwork Orange, The Godfather, American Graffiti, The Texas Chainsaw Massacre, Jaws, Eraserhead, Taxi Driver, Rocky, The Original Star Wars Trilogy, Suspiria, The Warriors, An American Werewolf in London, The Burning, Blade Runner, Sleepaway Camp, Scarface, A Nightmare on Elm Street, The Breakfast Club, Ferris Bueller's Day off, The Friday the 13th series, Hellraiser, Full Metal Jacket, Akira, The Killer, Dead Poet's Society, Jacob's Ladder, Waynes World 1 and 2, Reservoir Dogs, Hard Boiled, True Romance, Naked, A Nightmare Before Christmas, Dumb and Dumber, Clerks, Pulp Fiction, Mallrats, Tommy Boy, Billy Madison, The Usual Suspects, Toy Story, Boogie Nights, Black Sheep, Cemetery Man, Happy Gilmore, SubUrbia, Good Burger, Good Will Hunting, Rushmore, Six String Samurai, The Big Lebowski, Office Space, Fight Club, American Beauty, Snatch, O Brother! Where Art Thou?, Training Day, Irreversible, Punch-Drunk Love, Gangs of New York, Kill Bill Volumes 1 and 2, Lost in Translation, The Room, Oldboy, Harold and Kumar, Shaun of The Dead, Sin City, Batman Begins, This is England, No Country for Old Men, Into the Wild, Martyrs, Inglorious Basterds, The Social Network, Drive, Cabin in the Woods, Moonrise Kingdom

Music:
Punk, Folk, Classic Rock, New Wave, 80's and 90's Rap and Hip-Hop, Metal. As with books and movies, I like music which entertains and instructs.

The Pogues, The Ramones, The Clash, The Misfits, Black Sabbath, Led Zeppelin, AC/DC, The Rolling Stones, Guns N' Roses, Iron Maiden, Pink Floyd, Bob Dylan, Johnny Cash, Bruce Springsteen, Cat Stevens, Simon and Garfunkel, The Beatles, The Smiths, Eric B and Rakim, Biggie, Tupac, Gang Starr
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good night's sleep in a warm, cozy bed, literature, friends, family, goodness (which includes hope, faith, beauty, order, peace, tranquility), and good food!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Romance.

Literature.

Beauty.

Theological questions.

Suffering.

Happiness.

Society and everything wrong with it: greed, vanity, corruption, excess, triviality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In watching a movie or reading a book, going to midnight movies, drinking with my close circle of friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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We'll see about that ;)
You should message me if
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You are a highly sexual, compassionate, and intellectual woman who follows her own star and you are not looking for the "aggressive" type, but instead a kind, gentle, understanding, and romantic man.