Ok, so this is a remake of my profile. Evidently, I can't change the name due to OKc's rules.
The reason? Two-fold: 1) The original profile was done at Christmas while I was housesitting. 2) A female friend suggested that I revamp it in order to better represent who I am, rather than the tongue-in-cheek version.
I admit, I'm far different than most males. First, I choose to like to treat a woman like a Queen. Why? Because of how much I respect women. I realize that women have always been the true strength behind a powerful man.
I have no problem with revering women. Yes, I'm confident and self-reliant, yet realize Women are superior and I know men are far better men when they have a strong woman in their lives
A sense of reverence and genuine admiration works well.
I Live in SoCal, travel all over.
Since 1989, I've sought someone to devote the rest of my life to. Not just anyone....I seek something very different: Anything more is too much, Anything less is too little.
I seek someone playful and confident, doesn't NEED me, but WANTS me despite my capricious character...someone who holds the value of connection above all else... who recognizes the importance of the bondage of communication... and is self-assured enough to admit and Demand what they truly want instead of just what they think I want to hear.
I cherish someone who is not afraid to tell me when their feelings are changing, even as they change - instead of letting me continue to run the bases after their internal umpire has called "foul"...a way with words is appreciated if they can both keep up with my cunning linguistical acrobatics as well as forgive my sometimes cheesy metaphors and puns.
I'm the type of guy who believes in possibility, but doesn't buy into all. I believe looks ARE important; as are Sense of Humor, Hygene, Fitness, Sense of Self, Open-mindedness, and TRUTH. Adventure, Creativity, Sensuality, Caring, Sharing, and Daring are also fine attributes.
I seek someone who KNOWS,/em> what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it. Someone who expects the best and can seduce me into reaching both our goals quickly, yet realizes that reaching the dream is about the adventure, not add-water-and-stir.
Long Distance is even ok with the right chemistry, Closer is better. I am not the jealous type, so if you are "Free-Spirited", that is fine by me, and No, I do not expect the same in return - just be honest and open and all is fine with me. (I'd make a very devoted and endeared accomplice.)
I'm the type that does well on my own, yet often want an "side kick" in life.
Do you want to build castles in the sky? Want to weave dreams in waterfalls?
Want to be amused from time to time or pampered consistently?
If this strikes a pleasant note with you, or you get a good feeling from it, or can see yourself as truly happy yet always enjoying more, I'd love to hear from you!
I'm even open to switching it up on occasion!
NOTE: I may just have more interests than I checked
...and I am a cuddlewhore on occasion!
Whether you are monogamous or Poly, I'm find. You dabble in BDSM - that's fine by me. I'm not judgmental.