Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Depth junkie...I love most things transformational, from the
intimate to the planetary.
Because I'm an independent, out of the box, and accomplished woman
I love it when a man can see me, and contribute to me
Because I love to be met by an equal, I love it when a man let's me
see who he really is, and contribute to his flourishing.
Because it can be a crazy beautiful broken world, I love it when he
protects me in those ways only a man can, and I offer him sanctuary
in those ways only a woman can.
Honest men who know how to authentically stand for themselves AND
for others are my favorite.
Smart creative playful intimacy has a cosmic and earthy feel to
me...and in that delicious place magical things happen.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been a healer/therapist for 18 years. My work is guided by a
life long love for the magic of interpersonal alchemy~ transforming
lead into gold.
It brings me deep satisfaction to help people create lives and
relationships that are sanctuaries of trust, play, creative
intimacy, and eroticism. I'm passionate about helping people
embrace their birthright to love and pleasure, and I'm walking the
brave and vulnerable path of learning how to embrace mine
I'm in a coaching program at One Taste for a practice called OM,
Orgasmic Meditation. It's a messy, juicy, life changing experience
that has open my world beyond words.
I know that I'm supposed to have a public voice on love, pleasure,
sexuality, the deep feminine, and the deep masculine. I'm a
spiritual warrior of the heart and my deepest desire is to be with
a man who wants to be a part of this great adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well thought out risk taking, that pays off.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I asked my friend to describe me and this is what she said...
"What stands out about you is that you have this delightful
sparkling way of relating. You're truly connected, responsive, and
expressive. You have a quick and dynamic intellect and put ideas
together in brilliant new ways. It's exciting to talk to you.
You're really living into what you're talking about."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These days any books that offer liberating insights into men and
women's primal differences- and the many ways we were made to bring
out the best in each other.
Music: Josh Garrels and India Arie are two of my favorite
Paolo Nutini, Amos Lee, Sean Hayes, Mumford & Sons, Matisiyahu,
Regina Spektor, and Jason Mraz are some other faves.
Music I love to dance to: Old school Disco, R&B, naughty pop
with strong rhythms. When I was coming of age disco and R&B
were all the rave, and rang my bell, still do for dancing.
A Flexitarian, I eat like a bonobo most of the time.
Vegetables, fruit, nuts, and a little ethical animal.
I have a little hedonist inside too, and she loves a juicy burger,
a succulent dessert, or a cocktail from time to time.
Adventuring out to eat, cooking together, and smart creative
conversation over a meal make me very happy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
there aren't any things I couldn't do without. There are ways of
being that I couldn't live without...
~The creative magic of authentic connection!
~Laughter and play :-)
~Love and sex positivity swirled together.
~Music and dancing.
~Adventures in beautiful nature.
~Artistry & beauty everyday.
~Deep insights rooted in the ability to fully surf sorrow and joy,
and discover the grace in the grit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live a fully turned on life with an awake, free, and open
I've traveled to some beautiful places, inner and outer, and am
ripe for more...
Adventures that have moved me to the core are...
Snorkeling off of a tiny island in the Sea of Cortez amidst
fluttering schools of rainbow fish | Basking in a bioluminesent
ocean hotspring on the shores of Baja while gazing at a sea of
stars above. Like floating in the cosmos. | Hiking to a crescent
cove beach in Hawaii with brilliant turquoise waves surging onto a
red sand beach | Soaking in a local beach hot spring with hundreds
of glowing lime green and purple sea anemones blooming on the
rocks| Gathering with friends in a Mexican town square at sunset,
laughing and flirting, a true sense of village community.
Other things I think about while navigating the wacky modern
Our culture is stressing people and planet to the max. How can we
"be the change" and wean ourselves off of our addictions to
consumption and distraction, which don't fulfill our deepest
hungers? How can we support each other in prioritizing what truly
fulfills us? I'm holding a vision of sustainable pleasure, that
contributes to a more healed earth. I'm walking this path. I'd love
to meet men who are inspired to walk it too.
You value wisdom in it's reverent and irreverent forms. You're very
smart. You're doing work that you feel meant to do; it contributes
to the world, and supports you back. You're on a wise path, with
strength and heart.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging and OMing with friends, dancing my a** off, adventuring
around town, reading a riveting book.
I'm an unrepentant lover of learning. These days I'm learning a lot
about deep masculinity and femininity, pleasure, love, sexuality,
and how to bring out our best natures. I'm also riveted by the
questions of how humanity will wake up out of it's slumber, and
respond effectively to the cries of the planet. My desire is to
integrate all of this with my man.
Allies on the path are welcome too!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I connect with the divine on most days, in a personal way. This
guides my life and infuses it with clarity, direction, surrender,
You should message me if
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You resonate. You're an adventurous and insightful soul, with a
brave imperfect heart that keeps growing. You're willing and able
to wrestle with your demons, and find your deeper strength. You're
committed to being authentic in all that you do. You sense we would
inspire each other. Together we might make each other better
people. You're willing to take the time to get to know me, and see
what kinda magic emerges.
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