OK, So when you first see me, you will think the sweet girl next door. Which to a certain extent is true. One of these days I will convince someone that I really am sweet and innocent :-) I have many tattoos , I am a work in progress. I am a very independent woman, but also very old fashioned in some ways. I am a sucker for a guy who will open the car door for me or will stand in the rain waiting for me.

I live with my fiance CountedShadows and our two cats on the North Shore. We have a fairly progressive relationship, a variation on poly, where we allow each other to date casually, but it certainly is not an anything goes relationship. There are rules and boundries. I am not planning on leaving him so please don't think it's a challenge.

I am playful, sexy, and openminded

I am living my life the way I have always wanted to. Planning my next vacation has become a hobby of mine. I am also in the planning stages of opening a day spa on the North Shore.

Massage, (I'm a massage therapist)
Cooking, cleaning... I'd make a great house wife...
I quilt, knit, sew, ride horses.... I can weld, use a lathe, run a skid stear. I am often called the Domestic Vixen :D

That I can be very sassy... People tell me that I have amazing eyes and that I have an infectious smile :-)

~I listen to just about everything...Some of my favorites right now are: In this moment, Five finger death punch, Nine inch nails, Deftones, Cold.
~I love food in general. I am NOT the girl who is going to just eat a salad on a date. However, I can be kind of picky because I have a texture issue with certain foods, but I adapt well.
~My 3 favorite movies are The Illusionist, Amelie and Memphis Belle I know, it's a weird combination.... I love Will Farrell, the quickest way to my heart is by making me laugh, so bring on the cow bell...
~I'm not someone who watches t.v just for the hell of it. I like certain shows and if they aren't on then I'll find something else to do. I absoluetly love Dexter, How I met your mother, Homeland, Big bang therory.
~Most people wouldn't think of me as a book worm, but I love to read. Some of my favorite authors are Koontz, Connelly, Deaver, Landay.

My bed, it's the best!
The gym, I love to work out.
Vacations
Cuddling, kiss, sex.
Friends
Family

Work, working out, vacations, and I will gladly admit, sex. I think about sex alot

It depends on my mood. I like going out and getting dinner but I also like cuddling up on the couch watching a movie.

Hmmm

You probably shouldn't.

I get lots of responses, and most of them don't understand the dynamics of an "open" relationship, and they're just looking to get laid (I don't just go around screwing random men, or women for that matter), or they want to pick my brain about my relationship.

As a result, most of my responses read something like "hey ur cute ur bf doesn't mind? lets hook up"

So don't email me unless you've got something interesting to say, you understand what it means to be in a poly/open relationship, and you can construct complete sentences.