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27 F Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 25–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Aug 19
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Taking a break from OkC! Be back sometime.

No cis men please.

Femmie (((((((((((QUEER)))))))))))))) (OKC suuucks for not providing more options for people who don't fit into gender/sex binaries), life-loving, fun-loving, dancer, extravagant cook, sister, health-seeker, asker-of-questions. Looking for creative fun-loving friends, sex, love, you name it…excited for poly/non-monogamous situations, and whatever else lovely personal connections may bring.

Lezbionest.....I am a big fan of butch ladies, bois and genderfucks, and my current partner is a cis male. While I am not opposed to dating extremely queer cis men, that spot in my life is occupied. A straight relationship of any kind wouldn't work for me.

All about trying new things. I had raw sea-urchin for the first time the other night. It was tasty.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Loving it! Quit my job as a barista to start my own business teaching French. I set my own schedule for the most part, work with amazing people, and I'm happy at work for the first time in my life. I adore the intricacies of language.

I am brimming over with life's possibilities at the moment, and excited to surround myself with people who are motivated and creative.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing, speaking & teaching French (but please don't message me and ask me to teach's my job), gluten-free & healthy cooking, creative solutions to functional problems (I like to fix stuff), making jewelry & other art, and many, many other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Apart from being clearly fabulous, I am not sure. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: soooo many. Anything Octavia Butler, Margaret Atwood, Steinbeck, Hafiz, e.e. cummings, A Song of Ice and Fire, Mary Oliver, Sherman Alexie, I will finish this damn list later.

Sly and the Family Stone, M.I.A., Etta James, Sera Cahoone, Erykah Badu, Jay-Z, Ozomatli, Santigold, Zap Mama, Dr. John, TLC, K’Naan, Django Reinhardt, Yo Yo Ma, Miles Davis, Tupac, Alt J, Animal Collective, Iam, Brandi Carlile, Fela Kuti, Louis Prima, Rahim Al-Haj

The Edge of Heaven, Monsieur Ibrahim, Crooklyn, Show Me Love (Fucking Åmål), Séraphine, The Linguists, Buena Vista Social Club, Harold and Maude, Persepolis, City of Lost Children, Delicatessen, Amélie, But I’m a Cheerleader, 2 Days in Paris, Our Idiot Brother, Born in Flames, Once, Y Tu Mamá También, L’Auberge Espagnole, Pan’s Labyrinth, City of God, Arsenic and Old Lace, To Have and Have Not, Être et Avoir, The Triplets of Belleville, Run Lola Run…

30 Rock, Roseanne, Arrested Development, The Boondocks, The Wire, Inspector Lewis, The L Word, Downton Abbey, Battlestar Galactica & Caprica, RuPaul's Drag Race...What a strange combo. All entirely true though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
~My incredible family & beautiful friends (people who think and feel deeply, and find humor in unlikely situations)

~Music and dancing

~Good food & other nourishment

~Outdoor escapades and traveling

~The ocean (Ok, I know the Sound isn't actually the ocean, but at least a big body of salt water...)

~Red red but seriously.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make education a more educational experience; social hierarchies, privilege, my role(s) therein; how to move through the world as a positive force; human complexities; sex; thinking too much and consequently overwhelming myself to a point of silliness
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends doin stuff--whether at a quiet bar or an awesome dance night...or maybe making a feast and watching a movie and reluctantly falling asleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, seeing as I tend toward the over-share side of things...can't think of any big secrets to reveal here.
You should message me if
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you are an amazing human being. Tell me some cool things about yourself, or tell me to check out your bomb-ass profile. Be forward enough to tell me what you want from our interactions.

Hey butch ladies & bois--I think you are super sexy.
(Otherly presenting individuals--don't let this put you off. At the end of the day, it comes down to energy exchange.)

Like I said before, I prefer females and genderqueers.

This means:

DUDES: If you message me, please be queer...and know that the odds are still stacked against you.

P.S. "Hey how are you?" won't get a response...