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23 Merrick, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Oh, I don't know. I exist. I'm friendly, relatively intelligent, and I like to start conversations with new people. I can be pretty sarcastic. I'm good at reading emotions. I'm awful at math and science, but I could discuss Shakespearean theory with you. I like to write letters. Sometimes I like rain better than a sunny day. I really like animals of all kinds. I try not to judge, but everyone makes mistakes. I'm an awful klutz. Sometimes I spend hours and hours reading great books, and sometimes listening to awful music. I try to be honest about my faults and humble about my accomplishments. I've always been a writer at heart. I'm not the best at a quick spoken retort, but sometimes I can write what I couldn't say. I don't know how to write these descriptions. I worry constantly about what people think of me. I'm pretty terrific at worrying. Is that a skill?
ENFP, apparently.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've recently graduated from college with a BA in English. The verdict is still out on grad school. I want to be a writer, or somehow work with book. Still in recovery from studying abroad- I left the country for the first time to study in England, have visited eight countries since, and now I miss traveling terribly. I hope that my future will involve some travel eventually. I currently work in publishing, and I'm hoping to make a career out of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing. I'm not that great at knitting, but I'm not awful. I like to bake and cook as well- I enjoy trying out new recipes. My "specialties" (also known as the things my family bugs me to make for them) are chicken cutlets and meatballs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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This is a trick question. There is no way to answer this without sounding self absorbed. So, I have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, LOTR, Anything by Garth Nix, Terry Pratchett, Good Omens, Bartimaeus Trilogy, Jane Eyre, Sherlock Holmes, The Picture of Dorian Gray, Game of Thrones, The Phantom of the Opera, Neil Gaiman, Maeve Binchy, the night circus, midnight in the garden of good and evil, Tamora pierce

Movies: Love Actually, V for Vendetta, Beetlejuice, Secondhand Lions, Moonstruck, Corpse Bride, Blazing Saddles, Princess Bride, Toys, The Green Mile, Moulin Rouge, ever after, Edward scissorhands

Shows: Gilmore Girls, Eureka, Star Trek: next gen, Law and Order SVU, Whose line is it Anyway, Project Runway, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Elementary, How I Met Your Mother, Hannibal, Doctor Who, Tenth Kingdom, Chopped, The Walking Dead, Agatha Christie's Poirot, Miss Marple, My Mad Fat Diary, Orange is the New Black

Music: Beatles, David Bowie, Coldplay, Maroon 5, Rob Thomas, Train, Airborne Toxic Event, Ludo, Bruce Springsteen, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Mumford and Sons, Blue October, My Chemical Romance, Eels, Jet, Queen, Paul Simon, Killers, The Police/Sting, Finger Eleven, Barenaked Ladies, Cake, Eddie Vedder/Pearl Jam, Foo Fighters, Flogging Molly, Incubus, System of a Down, Flightless Buttress, The Who
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Tea
2. Books
3. Something to craft
4. Clothing
5. A peaceful place in nature
6. The movie Labyrinth

These are not necessarily in the right order, or at all accurate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Books, generally, or music. I always appreciate a book or band recommendation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Does anyone actually have a typical Friday night? Like is there some Friday night recipe that I'm missing out on? I feel like I missed the memo. My Friday nights can include being at work, at a bar with friends, at home watching TV, or making dinner. Any or none of the above may apply. Use as directed. Results may vary.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm double jointed, but only in my left thumb. And I have one slightly pointed ear (looks a bit like an elf)- which is also on my left side. I have no interpretation for this. I'm weird, but only on my left side?
You should message me if
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If you're interested, because I really really hate messaging first. If you don't send copy and pasted messages because I really hate those. If you send me just "hey" or "hey how r u" or some derivative this is your fair warning that I will either ignore it or have fun at your expense. If you're nice to wait staff, if you hold the door for the person behind you, if you get that thing off the really high shelf. If you don't mind watching the occasional star trek marathon. Or law and order. I love that show.