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27 Daly City, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Strictly other
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Born in SF and raised playing Baseball, Skateboarding all over the city, living at the Academy of Sciences (Mom worked there), and rebelling against a parent that was so permissive she didn't notice.

Went through a chubby phase until I grew a foot in 9th grade, then pretty serious acne, so self confidence took a while but now it is unshakable

At CCSF I studied Philosophy and worked as a safer sex and domestic violence/rape prevention.

I have been training in Judo, Jiu-Jitsu, and, to a lesser extent, Muay Thai Kickboxing for almost a decade.

Animal lover; especially pitbulls and reptiles.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
-I spend 30+ hours a week teaching, training, or competing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.

-Slowly learning Brazilian Portuguese and Japanese (hook it up, even if you are as bad as me, it will be fun)

-Making my partner look good while dancing to anything , challenges are being accepted.

Podcasts: JRE, DTFH, Radio Lab, Hardcore History, Skeptic Tank, Serial, Mating Grounds, Tangentially speaking, The church of what's happening now, The Beige Phillip Show.

-Staying up to date on wierd facts about sexuality and evolutionary psychology. (Why are women louder than men during orgasm? Why is the penis shaped like it is? What is a Skenes gland?)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Being radically, unabashedly, wildly honest.

-Expressing my feelings and taking responsibility for them.

-Finding the worst possible thing to say, realizing it is terrible, then saying it anyways in a tone that shucks all personal responsibility.

-Conversation...I can wax poetic about anything, but I have two ears and only one mouth so...
The first things people usually notice about me
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#1. That guy kind of looks like a Who from Whoville.

#2. "Wait, what the fuck did he just say?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Sex at Dawn
Radical honesty
The complete works of Plato
Anything by Alan Watts
The Aldous Huxley Collection
Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance
The Ethical Slut
Why Women Have Sex
Anything by George Orwell
The Mating Mind
Why is the penis shaped like that?
The Lathe of Heaven by Ursula K. Leguin.
Black Elk Speaks
The Lucider Effect
Obedience to authority

Musical Artists? N.E.R.D, Ray Charles, The Beatles, Led Zepplin, jimmi Hendrix, Pink Floyd, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, Cab Calloway, Mos Def, Talib Kweli, Red man, Method man, Wu-Tang Clan, Black Sabbath, Jill Scott, Simon and Garfunkel, ELO, Aretha Franklin, Etta James, Billie holiday, Charlie Parker, Ravi Shankar, Miles Davis, Green Day, Bill Withers, Big L, Notorious BIG, Tupac Shakur, Willie Nelson, Snoop Dogg, MGMT, Crosby Stills Nash & Young, Honey Honey, Thievery Corporation, Charice Pempenco, The Tempatations, Michael Jackson & the Jackson 5, you get the point.

I am a fan of stand-up comedy, Burlesque, Pole dancing, and live music...I frequently go to shows.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Jiu-Jitsu
2. Ridiculously irrelevant life changing philosophical debates.
3. Dancing (Swing dancing is a specialty of mine)
4. Stand-up Comedy
5. Healthy food.
6. Cuss words or my car....not sure which of the two I use more.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How Prince charming is unrealistic, quite sexist, and probably couldn't charm or fuck his way out of a rotting pumpkin after midnight.

How much I despise the word,"inappropriate".

How being a sex-negative Feminist is similar to being a preachy vegan who kicks their dog and tips cows on the weekend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? Ain't nobody got an epsom salt bath wondering why I get beat up for a living.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once got caught in the act by dozens of people at a drive in movie theatre during scooby doo 2.

I look waaaay more vanilla than I am. Consentual, judgement free, exploration of mutual fantasies is what seperates us from boring people.

PS: Grammar is sexy! It shows me that you know what it means, how it works, and where to put it ;-)
You should message me if
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**Disclaimer** I am a caring, loving, curious person who only respects honest discourse and genuine connection. I can be sweet, nurturing, and a great teacher. I like to get to know people on a deeper level, I don't have casual conversations or...depending on your definition, casual sex. All of that being said, I am unabashedly an ethical slut!

I like to have a deeper connection because I don't want to offer you things you don't want, and unless you are really comfortable with me, I don't want to do anything but talk with you. I don't play the,"Maybe/Make me", game because I am too large and imposing for anyone to believe my story. It's either,"Fuck yes!", or I'll see you next time ;-)

You should message me if you...

-Want to get my attention. I love it when a girl has the confidence to approach me or send me something funny/cool.

-Can take a joke and agree that the intent is what truly matters; but funny and unfunny jokes come from the same place.

-Want to flirt with me while I teach you...Martial Arts, Skateboarding, Swing Dancing, Philosophy, etc...Bonus points if you can teach me something!

-Don't take yourself too seriously.

-Like to make genuine connections.

-Love to dance.

-Like to talk shit with people who reciprocate ;-)

-Can help me learn a little of a language and don't mind me asking you how to say things that are ,"inappropriate".

-Would like to meet my girlfriend and I.

Just do it, I guarantee that meeting me will be easier, less complicated, and more fun than you might overthink it to be. If we hit it off, we could have a great time. If we don't hit it off about a million unicorns could die, but that's a risk I am willing to take.


You have to ask me questions too! I am not here to do a one sided interview with you. As boring as most messages you recieve inevitably are, you still have to be interesting and interested to make a connection, especially online.