Went through a chubby phase until I grew a foot in 9th grade, then pretty serious acne, so self confidence took a while but is in abundance.
I always loved women and was fascinated with sexuality; so I spent all my summer work money on books about sex, attraction, flirting, communication, polyamory, etc...
In College I studied Philosophy and worked as a safer sex and domestic violence/rape prevention educator. I have some horror stories.
I had no rythm and I love swing music, so I took swing dancing pretty seriously for about 4 years and consequently learned to feel the beat. Now I can dance to almost anything.
I have been training in Judo, Jiu-Jitsu, and a little Muay Thai for almost a decade.
I started a few businesses teaching kids and adults, and now I run my MMA school just outside SF and teach at one in in the lower haight. Going to SFSU next year and running my businesses.
I train M-F in the mornings and teach M-F from 5pm-9pm.