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Sargazmo

27 M Daly City, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:20pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Grew up in SF playing Baseball, Skateboarding all over the city and rebelling against a parent that was so permissive she didn't notice.

Went through a chubby phase until I grew a foot in 9th grade, then pretty serious acne, so self confidence took a while but is in abundance.

I always loved women and was fascinated with sexuality; so I spent all my summer work money on books about sex, attraction, flirting, communication, polyamory, etc...

In College I studied Philosophy and worked as a safer sex and domestic violence/rape prevention educator. I have some horror stories.

I had no rythm and I love swing music, so I took swing dancing pretty seriously for about 4 years and consequently learned to feel the beat. Now I can dance to almost anything.

I have been training in Judo, Jiu-Jitsu, and a little Muay Thai for almost a decade.

I started a few businesses teaching kids and adults, and now I run my MMA school just outside SF and teach at one in in the lower haight. Going to SFSU next year and running my businesses.

I train M-F in the mornings and teach M-F from 5pm-9pm.
What I’m doing with my life
-I spend 30+ hours a week teaching, training, or competing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.

-Slowly learning Brazilian Portuguese and Japanese (hook it up, even if you are as bad as me, it will be fun)

-Making my partner look good while dancing to anything , challenges are being accepted.

-Podcast/Stand up comedy junkie.

-Staying up to date on wierd facts about sexuality and evolutionary psychology. (Why are women louder than men during orgasm?)

Revealing fact: I have spent over 3000 hours teaching martial arts since I turned 18, and maybe 100 hours wearing a suit and tie.
I’m really good at
-Being radically, unabashedly, wildly honest.

-Expressing my feelings and taking responsibility for them.

-Finding the worst possible thing to say, realizing it is terrible, then saying it anyways in a tone that shucks all personal responsibility.

-Conversation...I can wax poetic about anything, but I have two ears and only one mouth so...
The first things people usually notice about me
#1. : )
#2. "Wait, what the fuck did he just say?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
SEX AT DAWN, Radical honesty, The complete works of Plato, Alan Watts, The Aldous Huxley Collection, Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance, Lila, The Ethical Slut, Why Women Have Sex, anything by George Orwell,

Music: Anything that gets my feet tapping, hips swinging, adrenaline pumping, or simply eases the blues.

Tell me if you like these songs:

Smoke Alarm by Carsie Blanton - OFFICIAL VIDEO: http://youtu.be/dQQ09Lxy7dI

Backbone by Carsie Blanton - OFFICIAL VIDEO: http://youtu.be/WEdIg_dOVOY

Musical Artists? Currently...N.E.R.D, Ray Charles, The Beatles, Led Zepplin, jimmi Hendrix, Pink Floyd, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, Cab Calloway, Mos Def, Talib Kweli, Red man, Method man, Wu-Tang Clan, Black Sabbath, Simon and Garfunkel, ELO, Aretha Franklin, Etta James, Billie holiday, Charlie Parker, Ravi Shankar, Miles Davis, Green Day, Bill Withers, Big L, Notorious BIG, Tupac Shakur, Willie Nelson, Snoop Dogg, MGMT, Crosby Stills Nash & Young, Honey Honey, Thievery Corporation, Charice Pempenco, The Tempatations, Michael Jackson & the Jackson 5, you get the point.

I am a fan of stand-up comedy, and frequently go to shows.
The six things I could never do without
1. Jiu-Jitsu
2. Ridiculously irrelevant life changing philosophical debates.
3. Dancing (Swing dancing is a specialty of mine)
4. Stand-up Comedy
5. Good healthy food
6. Cuss words or my car....not sure which of the two I use more.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How Prince charming is unrealistic, quite sexist, and probably couldn't charm or fuck his way out of a rotting pumpkin after 12.

How much I despise the word,"inappropriate".
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? Ain't nobody got t...in an epsom salt bath wondering why I get beat up for a living.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once got caught in the act by dozens of people at a drive in movie theatre during scooby doo 2. (If your back hits the overhead light in an SUV at night, your window tinting is null and void)

I look waaaay more vanilla than I am. Consentual, judgement free, exploration of mutual fantasies is what seperates us from boring people.

I derive 90% of my enjoyment from the pleasure of my partner and prefer it if she really wants to give me the other 10%

I am in love; but I have plenty more sexual energy and emotional intimacy to go around. She is well taken care of and fully aware. Sometimes even involved.

I don't care too much about a girls level of experience sexually/romantically. If you are new I can show you around, if you are really experienced I can hang, hopefully you can show me something too.

That isn't pee.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You...

-Love to laugh.
-Don't take yourself too seriously.
-like to make genuine connections.
-Love to dance.
-Can help me learn a little of a language and don't mind me asking you how to say things that are ,"inappropriate".

Just do it, I guarantee that meeting me will be easier, less complicated, and more fun than you might overthink it to be ;-)

If we hit it off, we could have a great time. If we don't hit it off about a million unicorns could die, but that's a risk I am willing to take.