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26 M Daly City, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:21am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Dominant, humble, confident, experienced, sarcastic, non-traditional, smart ass, voluntarily tactless, eager to learn, adept at teaching, not as full of shit as your initial emotional reaction would make it seem. Teaching, coaching, training, traveling, and competing in Brazilian Jiu-jitsu.

My 'personality' section, is very accurate.


I am in love with a beautiful young woman! That being said, I see other women on my own. I wouldn't go as far as to say we are Polyamorous, but we have had a fling or two and a girlfriend here or there (Using the term liberally).

For me: I like all sorts of women of different ages, sizes, colors, and personalities. As she describes me," Strong, sensual, dominant, creative, kinky, funny, and thoughtful; an utterly lovable asshole".

For her: She likes girls with personality, specifically more dominant girls who like to take the initiative with her, although she doesn't mind having a sidekick when it comes to being dominated ;-) I would describe her as," An absolutely gorgeous mixed girl (African, Filipina, Chinese, Jewish, Irish, and probably everything else you can imagine...a lot of people think she is Latina). She is sweet, caring, adorable, and very easy to talk to; while at the same time being GGG, kinky, submissive, and not afraid of getting tied down or roughed up ;-)

Jealousy is not an issue, and we are not just looking for sex partners( though playmates are certainly welcome); we would love to have more friends who can share their insight and experiences around Poly/Open relationships, or maybe introduce us to more like minded people.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend 30+ hours a week teaching, training, or competing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. I teach at 3 different Mixed Martial Arts schools. Slowly learning Brazilian Portuguese and Japanese. I enjoy dancing in traditional styles (Swing, Salsa, etc). Listening to Opie and Anthony reruns and podcast (JRE, DTFH, The Church of what's happening now). I recently tried Acro-Yoga, seriously, google it.

Revealing fact: I have spent over 3000 hours teaching martial arts since I turned 18, and maybe 100 hours wearing a suit and tie.
I’m really good at
Saying what is on my mind.
The first things people usually notice about me
#1. : )
#2. "Wait, what the fuck did he just say?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
SEX AT DAWN, Radical honesty, The complete works of Plato, Alan Watts, The Aldous Huxley Collection, Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance, Lila, The Ethical Slut, Why Women Have Sex, anything by George Orwell,

Music: Anything that gets my feet tapping, hips swinging, adrenaline pumping, or simply eases the blues.

Musical Artists? Currently...N.E.R.D, Ray Charles, The Beatles, Led Zepplin, jimmi Hendrix, Pink Floyd, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, Cab Calloway, Mos Def, Talib Kweli, Red man, Method man, Wu-Tang Clan, Black Sabbath, Simon and Garfunkel, ELO, Aretha Franklin, Etta James, Billie holiday, Charlie Parker, Ravi Shankar, Miles Davis, Green Day, Bill Withers, Big L, Notorious BIG, Tupac Shakur, Willie Nelson, Snoop Dogg, MGMT, Crosby Stills Nash & Young, Honey Honey, Thievery Corporation, Charice Pempenco, The Tempatations, Michael Jackson & the Jackson 5, you get the point.

I am a fan of stand-up comedy, and frequently go to shows.
The six things I could never do without
1. Jiu-Jitsu
2. Ridiculously irrelevant life changing philosophical debates.
3. Dancing (Swing dancing is a specialty of mine)
4. Stand-up Comedy
5. Good healthy food
6. Cuss words
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a fan of the work of Rocco Siffredi. I love intense experiences, but I wouldn't pet your dog without consent!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to meet me (Or Us) for drinks, tea, etc... Get to know me and take it from there. Just be yourself and if you are cool we can hang out. No expectations, No obligations, No judgement, and No limits.

Just do it, I guarantee that meeting me will be easier, less complicated, and more fun than you might overthink it to be ;-)

If we hit it off, we could have a great time. If we don't hit it off about a million unicorns could die, but that's a risk I am willing to take.