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44 Pittsburgh, PA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 23
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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[Insert witty opening line here]

I enjoy travel, spending time with friends, movies, concerts, autoracing (mostly F1), gaming (GTA is my favorite, but I'm not very good at it) and most sports. Andrew Luck is high on my list of fave QBs.

I am not into drama and am respectful of another person's time, meaning I won't call you 20 times a day to ask you what you're doing.

But that doesn't mean that I'm not open to starting a relationship. It means that I believe in not forcing it and letting things develop naturally. Too many people are together for the wrong reasons. I think it's better to feel that "spark" and see where it takes you.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've been in Pittsburgh for about two years now and have been enjoying seeing the sights and navigating the area. Moved to the area for work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Going with the flow and mixing it up. No plans needed.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and openness. I enjoy meeting new people. I've worked for several global companies where I've interacted with people around the world so I am not one to judge those who are different from me. I've mostly enjoyed working with clients in Latin America. A highlight was my travels to Brazil. I admire everybody's warmness and sincerity there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I mostly enjoy nonfiction and personal essays.

I have varied tastes when it comes to movies. Some of my favorites are Pulp Fiction/Jackie Brown (gotta love Tarantino), Inception, Argo, The Darjeeling Limited, Lost in Translation, whiplash, and classics like Star Wars, The Shining, Caddyshack and Jaws. (The Shining still freaks me out after all of these years).

I haven't had cable in years so I download from my PS3 and stream. Recently Homeland, The Mindy Project, Veep, House of Cards, and True Detective.

Music is pretty much anything, although, I never followed Country. I like a lot of bands that nobody ever seems to know- The Twilight Singers, Afghan Whigs, Matthew Good (like a lot of Canadian bands), 30 STM, and some old favorites like Queensryche.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. I don't have a large family so my friends are a big part of my life.
2. A car with some horsepower (has to be a manual so I can really drive it)
3. My favorite music.
4. Classic favorites like Seinfeld that save my sanity after a ridiculous day.
5. A sense of humor so I can get through a ridiculous day.
6. Traveling and experiencing new things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How in spite of social media and constant connectivity I feel like we're becoming a less social or sincere society. And what would happen if everyone took their ear buds out for a day.

Also that the Frost poem about the road not taken doesn't mean what I thought it did!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recovering from a long work week and getting ready for the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I accidentally locked myself in my attic and the fire department had to come and get me out.
You should message me if
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You're honest about who you are and have a sense of humor.