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Sasshey

43 / F / straight / Single

Redmond, Oregon

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Sign_Language (Poorly)

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I am happy, caring, and adventurous.

My Self-Summary

I'm a fun, intelligent adventurous kind of woman who generally has a smile on her face. I'm learning to make the most of every moment and I'm working on bettering (is that a word? it looks funny...lol) myself inside AND out. I am working on leading a more healthy and active lifestyle.
I am an open, honest, warm, caring, genuinely nice person. I would never ask more of someone than I am willing to give myself. I am a happy person that enjoys living, loving, laughing and appreciating all the little and big things life has to offer! I am easy to please and it's not difficult to make me happy. I am sort of that "girl next door" type. I love to do just about anything and have many interests. There are very few things I can think of that I don't like to do. Just a few of the things I enjoy are:reading, bicycling, TRAVEL, scuba diving(I got certified in Maui), spending time with friends and family, racquetball, movies, theater, swimming, backyard BBQ's, entertaining, quiet times at home, camping, fishing, cruises, architecture, boating/sailing and EVERYTHING to do with the beach/water! If it's wet I'll LOVE it! I also enjoy being spontaneous and trying new things. I would love to try downhill skiing/snowboarding, skydiving, kayaking and white water rafting sometime.

What I’m doing with my life

I am enjoying life and being a great mom to my amazingly wonderful 13 year old son (he's the only one left at home). I love my work as a teacher's assistant because I truly enjoy working with kids.

I’m really good at

I am REALLY good at being a mom and I am pretty good at most things that I attempt.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am quick to smile, friendly and care about what you have to say.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite book: Anything by John Saul :) I just finished a book called "The Other Boelyn Girl and now I'm reading "If I am Missing or Dead...". I have the new John Saul book but I like to savor the fact that I have a new one just sitting there waiting for me to read it! lol
Favorite movie: I love almost all movies (Just saw The Proposal...it was excellant! It made me laugh and cry and laugh some more! A "must see"
Favorite music: I enjoy jazz, pop, country, 80's, just about anything but rap and twangy country.
Favorite food: Seafood, Chinese, Mexican, American (I enjoy trying new foods or old favorites)

The six things I could never do without

1. My kids/family
2. Travel
3. A good book
4. Faithfulness
5. Kindness
6. Fun/happiness

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How I want my life to be and what I need to do to make it be that way. Also, where I want to travel to next! Any suggestions?

On a typical Friday night I am

Either home hanging out with my son or hopefully doing something fun with friends and/or family!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am ultimately looking to get married again...I enjoy being married and all the "perks" that come with it, such as: companionship, friendship, someone to do things with, someone to be there for you and you for them...etc, etc.

You should message me if

If the following sounds like you then by all means WRITE ME!!! I am searching for my best friend. Someone who has things in common with me and wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them. Someone who is honest, kind, considerate, faithful, caring, happy, fun, easy going and has good moral values. I am looking for someone that is comfortable holding conversations (both talking AND listening). Someone who is out going but is still a little shy sometimes too. I like a man that knows how to be a gentleman but isn't stuffy and can make decisions without being bossy or pig-headed...lol. I am looking for someone who is emotionally and financially secure (I am not looking for "rich" just able to buy things when you need them, pays bills on time, has a retirement plan, can afford to travel, etc). If you would like to talk with someone who sincerely cares and is genuinely interested in your life then take a chance on me...you won't be sorry you did. I know that it's quite the cliche` but I truly am hoping to find my soulmate!