I'm happy. Not only am I generally a positive person, I put in effort towards happiness. I am looking for others who are doing the same. The foundation for happiness in my life: a fulfilling and meaningful career, meditation, healthy and whole food, exercise, social justice, amazing friends, close relationships with my folks, fun, adventure, and creativity.
You may be wondering about the bi-sexual label. Me too! Seriously. Labels are for jars not my sexuality. I was happily married to a man for many years and I have also experienced long-term and short-term relationships with women. For me, it's less about someone's gender and more about their energy and who they are as people.
Are you a positive, fun, smart person? If yes, I likely think you are sexy. I find androgyny a la David Bowie attractive but I also like burly football players and long-haired curvy women, too. If you think bi-sexual means watching (straight) girls make out in bars or if you are insecure about my sexuality, I don't think we'll work out. Actually, if you have more than a modest amount of insecurity, we won't mesh at all.
*** NOTE: thanks for all the invites to threesomes but I decline. That is not what I am looking for: I am interested in dating someone awesome.