Here are some labels: I’m a Buddhist, I’m a biker. Any day of the week, you can find my in the gym, at a mediation class, receiving acupuncture, spending time loving my friends and family, in the kitchen developing recipes, attending art openings and riding with my all women’s motorcycle club (I go to the office, too!). I identify bi-sexual, and I’m open to all types of relationships with all genders.
My partners trend towards also being outside of the box in their approach to life. Happy, funny, creative, healthy, self-aware, emotionally mature, spiritual, compassionate, responsible, serious, achievement-oriented are words to describe those who I am attracted to. Burners, too.
Some relationship deal breakers: Spirituality is important to me. We may be practicing different religions, or you may not practice at all, but an understanding of interconnectedness, service and grace are fundamental. Emotional health and self-awareness are also foundational. I have been married and divorced and am no longer interested in birthing children, as I am 41, but I do love kids. So, if you have them already, that's great with me.