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Sassylynndy

76 F New Brunswick, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:55pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Creativity is my middle name. I'm an artist/musician/poet who sings a hot love song for a select audience of one and dances in musical arms,as well as energetic, eclectic, adventurous and just plain fun! I'm looking for a guy with some creative interests that we can share as lovers or (see below) or as friends.
At this point I've decided that either age is an illusion -- or I am! Find out for yourself if you dare! Numbers are only a manmade artifact.I've dropped a few years for search purposes and HEDONISTIC IS THE MAGIC WORD!!!
I do need to add that I DON"T DATE 20-30 SOMETHING GUYS - that's too much age and commonality difference. Thanks for understanding!
I also see this as more than just a dating site. It's an opportunity to meet interesting people in the arts and I'm totally open to meeting more music, art, theater and film friends for lots of great conversation!!
PLEASE BE WITHIN 2 OR 3 HOURS DRIVE _ I DON'T DO LONG DISTANCE ROMANCES! I do want to mentionTHAT I AM UNUSUALLY HEALTHY, ENERGETIC AND HAVE NO MEDICAL PROBLEMS. I CAN "DANCE" ALL NIGHT AND MY PICTURES ARE REAL!

I just got contacted by a guy who was a conservative, right winger who thought homosexuality was a sin. It's been a while since I've been out in the trenches fighting the right fight - the right to love freely whom ever you love and the right for women to have total control over their own body and eggs who are not yet babies. I've mellowed a bit since the exciting 70's but my views are just as strong and as a free thinking flaming feminist, total liberal, activist goddess, and spiritual woman, believe me when I say that any one who wants to make decisions for other people over how they run their life would not make a good partner or friend for me! I do not have anything in common with or date conservative right wingers!
What I’m doing with my life
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I try to get to as many concerts nearby as possible because live music is part of my religion and feeds my soul! More about that further down but if you're into music starting with contemporary singer/songwriter folk, to blues, soul, vocal jazz, rock and strong beat dance music, plus much more send me some words. I am open to music buddies. I work out regularly with a personal trainer because my motto is "you have to get older but you don't have to get old!" and I plan to stay fit and strong for as long as earth allows!. Thank you Conrad - my PT -- another hero is Joseph Campbell who has left so many wonderful teachings behind! He has always been a light in the darkness!
.My friends are all younger and so of course, my lover would need to be the same with similar great energy. It doesn't seem to be that difficult to me because I have a youthful attitude with a bit of hippie and a touch of class. no one believes my age but they do get the attitude!
I love to travel and like to go to the other side of the planet where nothing is the same and I need to confront my ideas of the "right" way to do almost everything. Sri Lanka was my first "day becomes night" trip followed by Nepal and Tibet. I come back with new eyes — important for an artist — plus great pictures!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creating a wonderful space is second nature to me and I've helped many friends over the years with decorating their spaces and jeans. My home has lots of my art as well as African art and other objects I've collected over the years and from my travels. It's my home ---Marilynn's museum.
Also really good at kissing as well as a few other things.
I was hot into climbing and rappelling until several years ago when I broke my arm (not climbing) and can't anymore. I"m sad about that but can do everything else like kayaking and dancing like nobody is watching! And also, LOVE TO SING!!!!
I happen to love kids and taught for many years from nursery school sweet ones to teens and have no problem relating. MY guitar went to school with me every day and it's a wonderful teaching tool!
The first things people usually notice about me
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SEXY AND SPICY!
I'm short, curvy with big blue eyes and curly blonde hair, a big easy smile and a fun attitude - I like to think they notice my eyes first but probably guys eyes go to my curves and that's life. Certain places have more power to draw attention.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Never get enough music - give me more and more - like a 3 day festival and I'm a happy gal! I can't begin to list the different kinds but contemporary singer/songwriter, classic vocal jazz, blues, dance music (love to dance!)and much more -- live, live, live music like Leonard Cohn, Lucinda Williams,Tony Bennett,Black Keys, Ella, Fats, Duke, Tom Waits, M.Ward, Joan! -- I could go on forever! and making some of my own! LIVE MUSIC SHOULD BE IMPORTANT TO YOU SO WE CAN GO HEAR LOTS AND LOTS!! NJ has great venues that are very reasonably priced and it's always a choice unless I'm going to an art cinema for a great film!
Poetry of course and I have lots that I've written over the years, been published and never tire of wonderful works like Rumi!
I'm a voracious reader and always have a book with me especially when I go someplace where I have to wait. I love books about the brain - the last frontier of the unknown, well written sci fi and strong woman mysteries, art, music, theater, and the humanities, Dragon Tattoo series, The Spell of the Sensuous. THe Power of Now, human growth and the science section of the NYTimes. Can't forget PBS but too many loves to list them all! Nice that loving all the arts has no limit!
I'm a film buff and love art, indi, foreign and art cinema films. Love theater in NYC, Lincoln Center. Ethnic food is my favorite - Thai, Malaysian, Sushi and any kind of seafood but love to try new places and new foods as well. Take me someplace I've never been! To the stars maybe? Well I have been to the stars but there are a multitude to pick from. Shall we take a trip to a new planet?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
PEOPLE - The three wonderful beings I have brought to the planet and my friends - wonderful circle!
Hedonism, does it make you tingle?
Creativity in music, art and theater - especially music and playing my guitar (If you play, that's a plus!)
Books -gobble them down
My Native American Cherokee spiritual community
My Co-op community with it's healthy attitude - but still a struggle to keep the doors open.
The words that slide from my fingers and become my poems
AND MY MUSCLES but I promise not to hurt you!(had to throw that in)!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making a difference and what more I can do like being part of George Street Co-op - HEALTH FOOD CO-OP and home for liberal activists! I'm on the Board of Directors and continue to fight the good fight!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes going out with a friend for dinner and/or live music. We have some wonderful contemporary folk/rock/ blues in NJ. Sometimes they just come over to hang out, share my space and trade words. And after a hectic week, sometimes, I want to be alone -- except for you!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Private is private - why ask?
You should message me if
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You are interested in meeting a conscious, youthful and zestful older woman who is energetic, sexy, sensuous and likes the energy of younger men as well as the possibility of being friends. NO smokers of any kind of tobacco please! PLEASE BE NEAR ENOUGH TO EASILY DRIVE TO SEE ME! I DON'T DO LONG DISTANCE ROMANCE!!