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30 Bellingham, WA Man


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Last online
Sep 29
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Buddhism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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In a general phrase, devoid of nuance, but potentially helpful, I'm a poly-amorous, atheistic, kinky, bisexual, extra-nerdy, French-Canadian, cis gendered male. I have a strong love for philosophy and the arts, though I can't claim to have contributed anything original to either. I've worked for about a dozen non profit organizations in WA over the last decade, so I consider myself something of an activist. I was born in Kansas, raised in Indiana, and learned a few things about who I was, but mostly about who I didn't want to be, during a stint in the US Navy that was intentionally cut short. Once that nonsense was over, I found myself in Seattle where I spent the first few years raving like a loon, and the last few working for all manner of non-profits doing fundraising, petition gathering, voter persuasion/registration, union building, and direct veteran outreach.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just moved to Bellingham in January. My lovely partner Maria and I are going to school at Western. She's studying education and I'm studying to be a social justice superhero. There's a lot of causes that are important to me, but I'm most interested in sustainability, decreasing the power of money in politics and the legal system, and supporting veterans within the anti-war movement. I work for a friend's cleaning company, and plan to go free lance once I get up north. They say Anarchy starts in the kitchen. I guess we'll see. :) Pretty well tapped into the local Burning Man community at least in Seattle. I'm serve as the Cardinal Misdirection in our regional chapter of the JERK church (ask about it, there's whiskey and singing involved... actually that's mostly it.). I write various content ranging from emotional beat poetry, comic book character rap battles, and assorted prose. I've been known to play the harmonica on occasion.
I’m really good at
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Some of the above mentioned hobbies. Surprising people. Mediating other people's drama. Bike repair. House cleaning, just not mine.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My sweet sweet chops.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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As far as books, Ishmael sticks out in my mind, A Series of Unfortunate Events, The Way of Zen, The Zombie Survival Guide, Anarchy Works, and The Maine Woods

For movies, I'll go Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Tekkon Kinkreet, I <3 Huckabees, Harold and Maude, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Sweeny Todd, and Fantastic Planet.

Online I watch Sci Show, Crash Course, Rap News, and elsewise, there's Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, and maybe a bit of Naruto.

I've been really into old school western and folk lately, I love experimental stuff. Anything that either has soul, good lyrics that I can relate too, or a funky new sound that I haven't heard before.

I'm an omnivore. Straight up. Always interested in trying new things. I have to be with the way that I cook. :P
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the internet, lovers, parkour, sleep, community, some new project to keep me occupied.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever it was I have planned a few days from now. How best to help my house function better, and what I can do around it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights lately have been rather Atypical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm into some pretty kinky stuff, some people would call me vanilla of course. I can be pretty insecure, but I've gotten the feeling lately that most people just fake it.
You should message me if
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any of what I talked about is also stuff that you'd like to do with someone else. If you just want to chat, or if you've got some crazy interest that you don't think you could drag some one else to. Chances are, I'm game.