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35 Stafford, VA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 19
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've been a bit of a nerd all my life, and love it. I'm a bit of a stereotypical engineer (run if you see me with power tools!). I love science and technical articles, and playing with new gadgets. I love to read, and I like to poke around in the corners of the science fiction genre for the gems.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as an engineer for the military and doing the single dad thing. Trying to find time to go hiking and camping, and sorely missing the biking and walking trails.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing and editing. I seem to be a bit of an oddity where I work, in that I am the only one who knows how to write well amidst a group of very technically minded co-workers. One of my pet peeves is "l33t" speak, as well as a total disregard to the grammatical conventions of our society. Yes, I am a writing snob.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My beard, followed by my eyes which have no constant color.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Right now I'm exploring the works of some rather obscure writers, particularly those who reside in the UK. It is hard to find their works in the US, so I frequently find myself ordering them online via Amazon.

I'm a Netflix addict, and right now my tastes have wandered across the pond to the UK. Lately, I cannot seem to get enough of BBC shows (e.g. Dr. Who, Torchwood, Being Human) . It appears that I'm slowly going into a western phase (e.g. Deadwood), and I am quite enjoying it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son
A constant breeze
Afternoon walks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ideas for short stories and other creative projects.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
- music festivals
- going out with friends
- swimming
- curling up with Netflix and popcorn
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a proud AFOL!
You should message me if
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You're willing to take it slow and cautious, and are looking for someone to hang out with and have a good time. While I'm looking for a relationship, I'm not rushing in to anything. Friends first is a good start..

UPDATE: If you do take the time to send me a message, thanks! But please, share a few details about yourself and introduce yourself. Something besides "'sup", "hi", and "hey". This lets me know I'm talking to a real live interesting person, and not a robot.