45 Fresno, CA
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My self-summary
Anybody do Karaoke? Okay, so that's my kick lately. Love karaoke and wouldn't mind finding someone to do duets with. (YES, I'm still married and NO this isn't an invite to a kinky singing threesome. Eeeww.) My husband doesn't mind my singing but he doesn't sing himself. So someone to sing with would be fun. Ladies are welcome too!
Message me if you're interested! :)
UPDATE: I am married now and I retain this profile because I have friends on this site. (And I recommend this site to a lot of people!)
I don't mind folks who wanna say "Hey!"- but I'm not lookin' for love any more. I found it. I hope you do too!
I enjoy learning new things- and I always strive to do that. I read constantly and love to meet new people. I am an aspiring Vegan and would absolutely love to meet more fellow veggies in the area. I enjoy dressing up and overdressing for almost any occasion amuses me. I am always delighted to make new friends- but I am no longer looking for love. I have found him and we are very happy. It will be 3 years together in October.

Musically I enjoy New Wave and Dark 80's, 1940's blues and jazz, classic rock and even some Heavy Metal makes up a lot of my music collection. But I'm not opposed to other genres. I am pretty open musically, actually. I love a good hookah and probably would die of thirst if it weren't for coffee.

I definitely lean Liberal- even if I'm not across the board that way- so if you're socially conservative, we'll probably clash more than jibe. In movies I am distinctly unrefined: zombies, giant bugs, tornadoes, apocolyptic disasters- no explosion or mutation is too big for me. My taste in wine is no better. You have been warned!
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a file clerk in a law firm and happily playing wife and step mother. Dancing as often as the schedule will allow.
I’m really good at
Keeping things interesting.
Cooking healthy veggie dishes.
Probably other things, but those are the things I feel confident enough to list here.
The first things people usually notice about me
My Hair. No...not the green curly hair (that's a wig, silly!) but my own hair has white streaks in it. They're natural and pretty striking. I'd probably say the next thing they'd see would be my big ol' smile. ...Or my nubbin nose. Probably a tie there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything LEGAL.
I've been devouring books about the law, our constitution and politics. Also been cheating a bit and doing audio books as I walk to and from school.

Food? Thai, Indian, Middle Eastern and Chinese! I've also rarely met a veggie burger I didn't like. Contrary to popular belief about vegans and their ilk, I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE food!
The six things I could never do without
My Friends, my cats, my library, cd collection and stimulating conversation. Without these things, I would die of ennui.
I have taken out Corsets and I now include Kevin, because my darling, I don't know where I'd be without you. Bored and hanging out with my cats, I suppose. Corsets I can live without, but not my guy. (And THAT is saying something.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Eugenics. How can something that seems so logical on the surface be so evil?
Nowadays I spend a lot of time thinking about PUA, rating systems, negging, relative quality and that manipulative misogynistic BS.
Many men who believe in the above topics also think George Sodini is a "Hero."
If you think a man who killed random, innocent women is a "hero", and you blame feminism because you can't find a bedmate- you have issues and need therapy. Stay away from me, you won't like what you get.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either out to dinner and listening to Jazz a the Landmark OR home, finishing the dishes and probably going to watch a movie and enjoy hookah and a glass of wine with Kevin.
Its a good life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Driving phobic- big time. *shudder* Hate it, still do it.
You should message me if
If you're LOCAL and you need a work out buddy, I NEED a work out buddy!
I'm getting all soft and squishy!