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31 Chapel Hill, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 27–44
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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Yesterday – 5:11pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Life to me is about being in the moment, continually growing, learning, and connecting, while also slowing down and enjoying the “small” things and having FUN doing it! Spirituality and mindfulness are extremely important in my life. I'm not religious, but love learning from different traditions.

I take health and wellness seriously, and pay a lot of attention to what I put in and on my body. Our bodies are AMAZING and sacred and I’m committed to treating mine right. This all sounds pretty serious, but in general I love being playful and silly.
What I’m doing with my life
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Loving, laughing, playing, traveling, exploring, learning, trying new things, meeting new people. Doing my best to continually grow and make a positive impact. I love to socialize and play, and I also really appreciate and value quiet time for meditation and reflection.

I spend most of my time reading, writing, dancing (I especially love ecstatic dance and blues), meditating, cooking, walking, and being with loved ones. I enjoy being out in nature, and try to get to the mountains whenever possible.

I'm really into helping people see past limiting beliefs and realize that we all have incredible potential. When it comes down to it, we are ALL amazing, precious beings, made of pure love, and the more we can tap into that, the more incredible our experiences of life can be!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, loving, connecting, encouraging, finding the silver lining. Seeing the beauty, innocence, potential, and LOVE in others and helping them to see it too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, I would guess height. Other than that, a lot of people tell me that I have peaceful, soothing energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Wow...I hardly know where to start with the books. I really enjoy reading (and listening to) pretty much anything having to do with health, food, and/or spirituality, as well as some other things. Some of my favorites are "Body Learning," "Eastern Body, Western Mind," "Women, Food, and God," "The Power of Now." Some favorite authors/teachers are Craig Hamilton, Dain Heer, Mooji, Gangaji, Brene Brown, Wayne Dyer, Eckhart Tolle, Pema Chodron, Marc David, and Geneen Roth.

I love healthy food made from high quality ingredients. Local, seasonal, organic whenever possible. If meat isn't pasture-raised or wild, I'll just skip it. I usually go to the farmers' market at least once a week and I cook most of my food at home - I usually keep it pretty simple, and always delicious. I don't eat gluten or dairy.

I love just about any music that I can DANCE to, I also like listening to traditional flute music, drums, and Kirtan.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Spiritual practice (life)

Materially, I would rather not be without a pen and something to write on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try not to get too caught up in thought and practice coming back to the present when I notice I've gotten swept away (key there is "when i notice," which isn't always right away :) ). In general though, I do like to contemplate and explore things like mindfulness, slowing down, spirituality, evolutionary consciousness, holistic wellness, embodiment, tantra, sacred sexuality, Alexander Technique, mindful eating, psychology (especially 'positive psychology'), sustainability, ecology, synchronicity, authenticity, vulnerability, self-improvement and growth, making a positive impact, and how to communicate things in a way that can best serve others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
....out dancing, at home reading or listening to a webinar, out at a potluck, cooking at home, having tea with a friend, star gazing in the mountains...
You should message me if
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If you take good care of yourself in mind, body, and spirit, AND don't take yourself too seriously; you're open minded, kind, honest, and positive. You can be comfortable with silence. You're into spirituality, mindfulness, evolutionary consciousness, Oneness, or whatever you want to call it - you have a deep knowing and appreciation of the DIVINE miracle that is life and the beautiful interconnectedness of all things.

If this doesn't describe you, you are still an awesome person (we all are in essence, whether we're tapped into it or not :) ), we're probably just not a good match. I wish you all of the love and joy in the world. <3