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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:39pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have been described as a positively masculine man who is compassionate, expressive, genuine, artistic, emotional, liberal and a giver.

I am certainly a weekend adventurer. During the week, I spend most of my evenings taking bike rides, exercising, having some nice dinners with friends, or just catching up on stuff. When the weekend comes, I am usually ready to go kayaking, wander to waterfalls, have fun in Seattle, or head off to Canada to spend time with my friends in Vancouver. I love Vancouver, and about half of my social life is there.

So I am here looking for a companion to share in my weekday evenings and/or weekend adventures. I am looking for a woman who soothes my soul just by being near me. A woman whose energy makes my heart melt.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am doing my best to live life in an ethical, compassionate, loving and expressive way. I'm not perfect, but who is?

One could say that I take pride in being different. I enjoy thumbing my nose at society and choosing to take a different path. Our society promotes living in isolation, materialism, greed, ignorance, rudeness and violence. In response I gave away more than half of my stuff, moved into a big house with 5 other people, stopped watching TV, embraced being empathetic and polite, and try to avoid all forms of violent media/entertainment.

As for work, I am very dedicated to the career path that I have chosen. I have been an educator for 16 years, and currently develop online education focused upon patient safety and healthcare worker safety.

This winter, I plan to start a website and pass out information promoting avoidance of all that is violent (e.g., violent TV, movies, games, etc.). I believe that the first step in reducing violence in our society is to re-sensitize ourselves to it. Is this idealistic? Perhaps. I am a dreamer, but not the only one.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whatever I put my heart, mind and soul into. I have taken up many hobbies over the years, but I became bored with some of them. Others I had to give up due to my deteriorating knees. These days I am really into sea kayaking, hiking to waterfalls or hot springs, photography, gem collecting, massage and saxophone.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Besides my height and eyes, people tend to notice that my energy is very different. People tend to open up to me very quickly because I actually listen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy Series
The Art of Happiness by the Dalai Lama
Anything by Terry Pratchett

Movies and Documentaries:
All of the BBC Earth Series
Chronos, Baraka, Samsara
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
The Royal Tennenbaums, The Life Aquatic
The Big Blue
The Red Violin
Dances with Wolves
Fantasy Movies: Lord of the Rings, etc.

Nepali, Vietnamese, Korean, Spanish, Italian and Mexican Food
Good wine, fresh mozza and sunburst tomatoes

I watch very little TV because I find most shows to be increasingly violent, morbid, spreading fear or just annoying in how people communicate. I just don't agree with most of the messages our society bombards us with.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My close friends, intimacy, the ocean, waterfalls, hot springs and green mossy logs/rocks.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to communicate and protect oneself in a world that promotes negative, simplistic, premature and un-empathetic judgements of people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
- Driving up to Vancouver, down to Portland or out into nature for the weekend
- Just relaxing and recovering from a hellaciously busy week
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am living proof that a person can choose to completely change their approach to life, overcome an ultra-conservative, military upbringing and reprogram their thought processes.
You should message me if
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Please message me if you are:

* very open minded and liberal
* compassionate and giving
* adventurous but also know how to relax and chill
* focused upon creating deep meaningful connections and friendships
* open to discussion, but not into debating/arguing

We will NOT be a good match if you are:

* seeking an old fashioned, traditional, strong and silent man
* overly possessive and not trusting
* conservative and/or religious
* prone to stereotyping and making assumptions about people
* racist, sexist or homophobic