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39 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 1
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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I have been described as a positively masculine man who is compassionate, expressive, genuine, artistic, emotional, liberal and a giver.

I am certainly a weekend adventurer. During the week, I spend most of my evenings taking bike rides, exercising, having some nice dinners with friends, or just catching up on stuff. When the weekend comes, I am usually off to kayak in the sea, hike to waterfalls and hot springs, party at a burner festival, or off to Canada to spend time with my friends in Vancouver.

So now I am here looking for a companion to share in my weekday evenings and weekend adventures. I am looking for a woman who soothes my soul just by being near me. A woman whose energy makes my heart melt.
What I’m doing with my life
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Besides being a weekend adventurer, I'm doing my best to live my life in an ethical, compassionate, loving and expressive way. I'm not perfect, but who is?

18 months ago, I gave away more than half of my possessions, moved out of my luxury apartment, and into a big house that I share with friends. Materialism was creeping into my life and that is not what I want to be about.

As for work, I am very dedicated to the career path that I have chosen. It involves helping others, and I'm proud of all of the time, work and sacrifices that it took to get here.

Currently I am looking at how I might support reducing violence in our society. I believe that re-sensitizing ourselves to violence is the first step, so I am looking to spread the message of avoiding all that is violent (e.g., violent TV, movies, games, etc.). Is that idealistic? Yes, I am a dreamer, but not the only one.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whatever I put my heart, mind and soul into. I have taken up many hobbies over the years, but I became bored with some of them. These days I am really into sea kayaking, hiking to waterfalls or hot springs, photography, gem collecting, massage and I have started to explore yoga.

In the past, I have been into saxophone, fire staff, leather working, stone carving, skiing and basketball. I may take some of these up again. Particularly the first three.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Besides my height and eyes, people tend to notice that my energy is very different than your average man. Despite being a tall man with a strong build, people quickly open up to me because of my energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy Series
The Art of Happiness by the Dalai Lama
Anything by Terry Pratchett

Movies and Documentaries:
All of the BBC Earth Series
Chronos, Baraka, Samsara
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
The Royal Tennenbaums, The Life Aquatic
The Big Blue
The Red Violin
Dances with Wolves
Fantasy Movies: Lord of the Rings, etc.

Nepali, Vietnamese, Korean, Spanish, Italian and Mexican Food
Good wine, fresh mozza and sunburst tomatoes

I watch very little TV because I find most shows to be increasingly violent, morbid, spreading fear or just annoying in how people communicate. I just don't agree with most of the messages our society bombards us with.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My close friends, intimacy, the ocean, waterfalls, hot springs and green mossy logs/rocks.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to communicate and protect oneself in a world that promotes negative, simplistic, premature and un-empathetic judgements of people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
- Driving up to Vancouver, down to Portland or out into nature for the weekend
- Just chilling and recovering from a hellaciously busy week
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am living proof that a person can choose to completely change their approach to life, overcome an ultra-conservative, military upbringing and reprogram their thought processes.
You should message me if
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Please message me if you are:

* very open minded and liberal
* compassionate and giving
* adventurous but also know how to relax and chill
* focused upon creating deep meaningful connections and friendships
* open to discussion, but not into debating/arguing

We will NOT be a good match if you are:

* seeking an old fashioned, traditional, strong and silent man
* possessive
* conservative and/or religious
* prone to stereotyping and making assumptions about people
* racist, sexist or homophobic