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SawOfTheTable

36 M Hawthorne, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:18am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Administration
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a thoughtful person. I start out reserved, but when I get to know you, I laugh long and loud.

I'm a native Angeleno, at home in the Valley and in the city, along the Pacific Ocean and atop the Santa Monica Mountains.

I'm feminist and anti-racist. I've spent time learning the theory, but I know that it's usually best just to listen to those who choose to speak, and not impose upon those who don't.

I'm a game player. I get together with friends to play a board games, card games, or role-playing games, and I play videogames on my exercise bike when I'm at home by myself.

I'm a thinker, and I take great joy in giving traditional art and modern pop culture the same careful analysis.

My friends want me to tell you that I'm a considerate friend, and that I'm amusing when I'm tipsy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
During the day, I work an office job. It's not the best, but it's not the worst. At night, I spend time with my friends around the Southland.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving puzzles; playing games; talking late into the night about just about anything; respecting boundaries; helping people figure out what they wanted to say in the first place; getting a read on people long after it would do anybody any good; and mocking bad television, and then analyzing its social messages and artistic aesthetics.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall. I don't notice it so much, but when people first meet me, they tell me that I'm bigger than they expected. I take it as a compliment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't like picking favorites, because I always get worried about leaving things out. So I just add a few things to this list every time I play around with the profile.

Books and Authors: Stanislaw Lem; Dr. Seuss; Merriam-Webster's Collegiate Dictionary, Eleventh Edition; Philip K. Dick; A Song of Ice and Fire; Eduardo Bonilla-Silva; Judith Butler; Samuel R. Delaney; Ursula K. LeGuin; the Thomas Brothers' map books of Los Angeles

TV: The Venture Bros.; House; Life on Mars; the Olympics; Wire in the Blood; The Vampire Diaries (and its cracky bad goodness); Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles; Janelle Monae; Spartacus: Gods of the Arena; Cowboy Bebop; Doctor Who (My top three are Nine, Three and Seven); Mystery Science Theatre 3000; Once Upon a Time;

Music: Laura Viers; The Pinkertones; Aimee Mann; Antonio Carlos Jobim; R.L. Burnside; Bitter:Sweet; Stew; Jaime Cullem; David Bowie; Gillian Welch; Oh Susannah; Jim White; Tarnation; Doctor Octorock; Tanya Donelly

Food and Drink: tea; Eggplant Parmesan; sushi; peanut butter; Monte Cristo sandwiches; Tender Greens; carrots

Theatre: Passing Strange; Hamlet; Picasso at the Lapin Agile; the East West Players; UCB Theatre; Harold Pinter; Into the Woods; Reanimator: The Musical

Movies: Clue; The Princess Bride; Planet of the Apes; the Egyptian Theater; Cabin in the Woods

Games: Betrayal at House on the Hill; Trivial Pursuit; Super Meat Boy; The Legend of Zelda; non-serious poker; pinball; Apocalypse World; Super Metroid; Earthworm Jim; Pictionary; Charades; Smallville RPG
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about gender, race, and the ways society shapes us, with and without us noticing.

I think about language, how it works and how much there is to learn.

I think about games and puzzles, and I think about art, and I think about how to think of games and puzzles as art.

I think about music and beauty.

I think about my future, and how that future has changed from what I thought it would be.

I drive around Los Angeles, and I look to the hills and mountains and imagine how glorious it would be to hike up there and look out to the Pacific.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out to meet with friends around Los Angeles. Heading to the Aero to catch a show. Wandering around the Santa Monica Promenade or Palisades Park. Or falling asleep early because I did all of that stuff early in the week too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am polyamorous; I don't believe in strict monogamy. I'm in a long-term, committed relationship with a woman who is a little bit more on the monogamous side, and together we have a sort of open relationship that could be called "monogamish." I'm open to being intimate with amenable friends, and to making new friends who may be similarly amenable.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You should message me if you want to go out, have fun, make friends, and see where things go.

Or if you just want someone to talk to. I promise to be as interesting as my caffeine level will allow.