Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a thoughtful person. I start out reserved, but when I get to
know you, I laugh long and loud.
I'm a native Angeleno, at home in the Valley and in the city, along
the Pacific Ocean and atop the Santa Monica Mountains.
I'm feminist and anti-racist. I've spent time learning the theory,
but I know that it's usually best just to listen to those who
choose to speak, and not impose upon those who don't.
I'm a game player. I get together with friends to play a board
games, card games, or role-playing games, and I play videogames on
my exercise bike when I'm at home by myself.
I'm a thinker, and I take great joy in giving traditional art and
modern pop culture the same careful analysis.
My friends want me to tell you that I'm a considerate friend, and
that I'm amusing when I'm tipsy.
What I’m doing with my life
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During the day, I work an office job. It's not the best, but it's
not the worst. At night, I spend time with my friends around the
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
playing games; talking late into the night about just about
anything; respecting boundaries; helping people figure out what
they wanted to say in the first place; getting a read on people
long after it would do anybody any good; and mocking bad
television, and then analyzing its social messages and artistic
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall. I don't notice it so much, but when people first meet me,
they tell me that I'm bigger than they expected. I take it as a
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about gender, race, and the ways society shapes us, with
and without us noticing.
I think about language, how it works and how much there is to
I think about games and puzzles, and I think about art, and I think
about how to think of games and puzzles as art.
I think about music and beauty.
I think about my future, and how that future has changed from what
I thought it would be.
I drive around Los Angeles, and I look to the hills and mountains
and imagine how glorious it would be to hike up there and look out
to the Pacific.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out to meet with friends around Los Angeles. Heading to the
Aero to catch a show. Wandering around the Santa Monica Promenade
or Palisades Park. Or falling asleep early because I did all of
that stuff early in the week too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am polyamorous
; I don't believe in
strict monogamy. I'm in a long-term, committed relationship with a
woman who is a little bit more on the monogamous side, and together
we have a sort of open relationship that could be called "monogamish
." I'm open to
being intimate with amenable friends, and to making new friends who
may be similarly amenable.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you want to go out, have fun, make
friends, and see where things go.
Or if you just want someone to talk to. I promise to be as
interesting as my caffeine level will allow.
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