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58 Monterey, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50-65
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 17
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm in the middle years, successful, a good Dad, and not unhappy in the life I've made. But of course The Middle Years is a long stretch of road, and sometimes the days threaten to blur and the mind thirsts for newness and change.

I'm not out to hurt anyone, or change anything in any big ways; indeed I'm a most respectful person and I put a lot of value on the responsibilities I carry. I'm just thinking that there are probably others out there, following similar roads, feeling similar things, and... why shouldn't we chat a bit? Breathe some new and interesting viewpoints and attitudes into each other's minds? Compare notes and trade banter and enjoy the possiblity of smiles forming or even of sparks jumping?

Send me a 'hi' and let's see what we find to talk about... I enjoy seeing the world through others' eyes and talking about how I feel about things. I'm pretty good with my keyboard fingers and find it is an easy way to talk and meet new people... I hope I'll hear from you.

I am broadminded, considerate, and melodic
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Inventing strange contraptions, keeping The Enlightenment alive, taking care of my family. Doing my best to live lightly on the Earth.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Thinking. Reflecting. Dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tall. Slim. Quiet. Often a smile playing about my face. Unafraid to speak my mind... if the situation warrants... otherwise likely not to bother anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
How about a few inspirational quotes instead?

“The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in the mind at the same time, and still retain the ability to function." -- F. Scott Fitzgerald

"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." -- Eleanor Roosevelt
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Earth, air, water, and fire.

I mean, seriously, you can do without 99.9% of the indulgences that folks list in this section, if you have to... including the ones I'm going to list next:

1) melody, harmony, and rhythm
2) the colors of nature
3) intimacy
4) a place to call home
5) google (the verb), or equivalent outlet for curiousity
6) dark-roast coffee
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tears well up during the cello aria that leads off the second movement of Beethoven's Fifth.