55 Pasadena, CA
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My self-summary
August 2014: I've been on this site for about a year now, met some amazing people and enjoyed every minute of it. Somehow, though, I am still looking for the all-elusive relationship.

I am open to many mind-expanding adventures. I am active but like to hang out, like to travel and stay home, (love my home by the way), like to socialize but am also pretty private. I'm very into making music and tend to listen to acoustic and classical. Sex is important to me but it needs to be fulfilling, not just random.

I've had and am looking for a deep connection with a man who is active, confident, friendly and comfortable with himself. From there, with honesty and integrity, all doors are open, including non traditional relationships. Hopefully you get the idea. On the surface, you wouldn't know any of this about me; I appear to be just your normal, everyday optimist!

I used to have this long legal warning about not using my profile without asking, I've decided to shorten that, but you get my drift.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, playing, making music. Heading toward early retirement (end of next year!), and then I'd love to have a partner for travel, music, cooking and general mischief. (-;

Oct. 2015: Okay, I could have early retirement if I wanted. I've chosen not to yet, but that could change any time.
I’m really good at
Kissing, music, relaxing and being active...and then there's technical stuff like computer systems analysis which is my day job, more or less.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my honesty and trustworthiness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm reading Number9Dream by the same guy who wrote Cloud Atlas. Weird book so far! I read Atlas Shrugged because a friend suggested it. Interesting ideas though not sure it works in real life. I like historical novels, some sci fi like Diamond Age by Neal Stephenson and anything well written.

Movies: True Lies, Princess Bride, When Harry Met Sally, Cloud Atlas.

Music: Lisa Loeb, K.T. Tunstall and others on SiriusXM Coffee House, REM, Barenaked Ladies, classical (piano, flute), jazz piano (Claude Bolling).

Theater, museums, live music: I subscribe to the Pasadena Playhouse and the LA Master Chorale, and see the occasional show at the Pantages, Ahmanson, Disney Concert Hall, LACMA, Getty and Norton Simon.

Food: Asian, American, fusion, French, cooking in general.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order
Fruits and vegetables
A good book
My brain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What will my life look like once I'm retired?
On a typical Friday night I am
On Fridays, I'm at my flute lesson! My teacher (and now great friend) feeds me a quick meal, followed by a lesson, talk and a crossword puzzle. It's a great start to my weekend!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not here...
You should message me if have time to share, are curious, interested and interesting, and want to get to know a new brilliant, happy woman with lots of life and love to share.

You shouldn't message me if you are not local to LA unless you think you can give me a good reason to correspond with you.