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27 M Eugene, OR

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:30pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name is Mat // Collector of hobbies // Bookworm // Journeyman at life // Ginger // Bearded one // Coffee enthusiast // Tree person // INFP // Rider of bicycles // Outdoorsman
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Moved from the Midwest to tend to the earth on a beautiful farm outside of Eugene. Enjoying the plentiful bounty that Oregon has to offer. Hot springs as often as possible (Umpqua is my favorite).

My work on a biodynamic farm has been put on hold, so in the meantime I'm slinging the best coffee in town at Cush Cafe. Drop by and see me!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't like this subject; "Good" is relative, here are some things that I am constantly striving to be better at...

-living sustainably
-writing heartfelt letters and cards
-riding my unicycle
-trusting the Universe
-bicycle maintenance
-paying attention to the little things
-following through with my plans
-being self-motivated
-discovering new music
-saying yes to every opportunity
-enjoying every moment of life
-making people smile
-riding my bicycle everywhere I go
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose my big red beard, probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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-On my shelf-
***Currently reading***
"The Alphabet vs The Goddess: The Conflict Between Word and Image" by Leonard Shlain
"The Teachings of Don Juan" By Carlos Castaneda
"The Mother Tongue: English and How it got that way" by Bill Bryson

Metaphysics, philosophy, spirituality, cookbooks, mythology, environmental with some well written literature thrown in for some spice.

Khalil Gibran, Pema Chodron, John Green, Tom Robbins, Alan Watts, Joseph Campbell.

-On the projector-
The Assassination of Jesse James by the Coward Robert Ford
Lost In Translation
Young Frankenstein
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
American Beauty
I <3 Huckabees
Stanley Kubrick
Wes Anderson
Muppet movies

-The tube-
Doctor Who
Sesame Street classics
Otherwise TV is for the birds.

-On my turntable-
***Currently Listening to Devil Makes Three Radio (on pandorka)***
folk // roots // bluegrass // Americana // ska // The classics
John Hartford
Bob Dylan
Run On Sentence
The Avett brothers
The Wiyos
Andrew Bird's bowl of fire
The Flaming Lips
Westbound Train
The Slackers
Amon Tobin

-In my kitchen-
I'm an omnivore with vegetarian tendencies, though that is starting to turn around on itself. Fresh veggies abound, the more local, the better, especially if they are out of MY garden.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-reading material
-good company
-dental floss
-my bicycle
-spare time
-delicious food
-great music and instruments
-lust for life
-blatant disregard for numerical limitations
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
It's all about love.

Being at ease within my own skin, in my own place, at my own time. All we have is right now, SMILE and do something incredible with it!

"If I never meet you in this life, let me feel the lack. A glance from your eyes, and my life will be yours."

"The Mountains are calling and I must answer"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being awesome.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a little dyslexic with numbers sometimes. This really has no effect on my life in any way.

Certain letters I capitalize just because they are more fun to write that way.

The octopus is my power animal.

This section has turned into random info bits because I think that more fun...
You should message me if
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Just say hello!

You will help me learn to rock climb, or learn with me!

You want to trade books, hang out, do some crafting, carve a jack-o-lantern, grab a drink, go for a bike ride, play some music, cook a meal, run away to some hot springs, teach me something new, learn something new, have good conversation... I'm game for just about anything!

I've currently got a sweety who is pretty amazing, but there is room for lots of love in life, and there are lots of amazing people out there. If you are reading this you are one of them!

The only caveat is that I'm interested in MEETING people, not just chatting on OKC for an indefinite amount of time.

You are punctual.

You realize that we are floating in space.

One of my dreams is to start a travelling family band, so playing an instrument is a big plus!