"Scars are souvenirs you never lose, the past is never far"
Hey, I'm Ashley.
I'm 27 years old and currently living in Arnold, MD. First thing to
know is that i wear my heart on my sleeve. I will trust and give
anyone a chance until they give me a reason not to. I am your
typical Pisces. I love the water, i love to write, contemplate
life, sit under the stars, walk along the beach. I love self
expression, be it tattoos and piercings, poetry, art, whatever! I
am Mommy to one beautiful little boy that is 17 months old and am
expecting my second son in 2 months. Also, i am a plus size woman
and will make no apologies for it. I am flawed but feel that it can
make a person who they are. My body may not be perfect but it
brought my Son into this world and nourished him for 9 months so
that is alright with me. So if thin, perfect and not real is your
thing just keep on moving. I have also loved Animals with every
fiber of my being since day one and nothing could change
I have many likes, few dislikes. Many loves and even fewer
I definitely march to the beat of my own drum.
I have realized that everyday is a learning experience and that
sometimes we can live our whole lives and never realize who the
people right beside us are. Sometimes it takes being betrayed by
those we never thought could hurt us, pain and a lot of confusion
before you can get on the right path.
It's funny how one day we wake up and realize that we are totally
different from anything that we ever thought.
In the most unlikely of times. places and ways..we find ourselves.
Not the person that everyone else wants us to be, but the us we
really are. Sometimes we deny our feelings and our true selves out
of the fear of things changing.
What I’m doing with my life
Being Mommy to my son and other one on the way, taking the time to
get to know myself better, anything and everything that I'm able
to. Right now I am working on being happy and taking this journey
day by day. I am trying to figure it all out to be honest.
I’m really good at
Writing, talking to and understanding people, anything music
related, making milkshakes, decorating a room, making friends..
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told my blue eyes and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many books to list all of them but a few would be, dean koontz
intensity, maya angelou, the blue day book, hard love by ellen
wittlinger, lovely bones, anything david sedaris and much more.
Movies would be a lot as well but here are a few..Rocky horror,
Ferngully, edward scissorhands, knocked up, django, breakfast club,
wreck-it ralph, cool runnings, night at the museum, thor, shawshank
redemption, mean girls, the color purple, wedding crashers,
zoolander, schindlers list, 10 things I hate about you, fox and the
hound, gforce. MUSIC is life. I'm very open to different types of
music. If I can feel it with my heart and it speaks to me I will
listen. Some of my favorite bands include but are not limited to,
Goo goo dolls, switchfoot, lady gaga, seal, lifehouse, nickleback,
vertical horizon, better than ezra, shinedown, coldplay, seether,
NIN, metric, sarah mclaughlan, postal service, travis, the early
november, dashboard confessional, city and colour, gym class
heroes, one republic, unwritten law, mumford and sons, all-american
rejects, staind, incubus, avenged sevenfold, jimmy buffet, sam
cooke, foo fighters, our lady peace, the fray, queen, mat
kearney..and the list goes on.
The six things I could never do without
My pets, My family and Son, Hope, free will and a sense of humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life. Love. How we all got here. The earth. I contemplate
everything...and I mean EVERYTHING!
On a typical Friday night I am
A lot is different with being a new Mom. I obviously don't get out
quite as much as i use to but i still manage pretty good. I would
like to either be out doing something fun or just as happy at home
in my pj's watching movies and making a pizza or something. I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't know where i am headed. I only know where i have been.
After years of having a "plan" and it "all figured out" i am fine
just taking it one day at a time for now.
You should message me if
Your open to meeting new people with similar and different
interests. You like to talk, make new friends and have random
conversations. You want a loyal friend.