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34 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–46
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 24
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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Gender fluid. Back to listing myself as male because holy shit men are ass holes and I'm tired of showing up in their search results.

I am a 33 year old graduate who moved to Seattle last year. I'm married, we're polyamorous (so we both date other people). I have a master's degree in Sociology and am currently working at a research firm in Bothell.

I'm a Druid, but I'm not a hippy. I don't smoke weed. I try not to randomly hug trees (but I do occasionally). I play lots of different role playing games. I like dancing and walks in the city at night ...

If you'd like to talk to me, then message. I reply often.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working 50+ hours a week and playing games when I can. I enjoy role playing games, video games and other geeky activities. I play in a couple of LARPs already in town, including one that is a once a month camping game out in the woods (Dystopia Rising).

Finally got my Merc membership and LOVE the place. Come have a drink with me some time!

I have a wonderful wife, and have just come out of a seriois secondary relationship, so I'm not looking for anything serious right now.If you'd like to be friends (maybe with benefits?) and just keep things casual, thats cool.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cards Against Humanity.
Seeing the wonder in everything.
And ropes. I'm good with ropes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have exceptionally blue eyes. I have a deep voice and soft skin and am almost always in a good mood when talking in person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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- Enders Game
- Dune
- Snowcrash

- Chronicles of Riddick
- Taken
- Star Wars

- Asian Food
I love to cook!! Let me make you dinner, you won't regret it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Sex
2. Good Food
3. Good Drink
4. Good friends
5. My Phone (and so by extension, my friends)
6. Your attention.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a great deal about sociological issues: why people behave the way they do, why people hang out with who they hang out with, and how people adjust their behaviors to meet the expectations of those around them. I also think a lot about geeky things like Star Wars and Vampire games. When I'm out clubbing I think about pretty girls and good drinks. When I have my ropes handy I think about how best to tie you up in them :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing. Or drinking. Going out with friends. Maybe dinner or a movie. I try to go out on Fridays as much as possible.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nothing is real. Everything is permitted.
You should message me if
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Wanted: pretty girl to play video games, role playing games, larps, have life changing sex with and the. Make breakfast for. Bonus points for also being goth.

You believe that it's possible to have a penis and also be a woman, and you're able to cope with a feminine male.

Having any two of the following is a sure fire way to get into my good graces.
- A job
- A car
- A college education