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27 Denver, CO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:06pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a fun, open-minded guy who gets along with almost everyone. I have my life together: College educated, job, car, no debt. Very much drama free. People have told me that I look a bit preppy, but act nothing like it. I enjoy hiking, backpacking, running, craft beer, and independent movies.

I tend to be a bit choosey about who I message, but welcome anyone to message me if you you like what you read/see. I am always friendly and will always respond.
What I’m doing with my life
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It should be noted that while I am a very sexual person, I am NOT looking for just a quick one time thing/hookup. Ideally, I would like to find someone who is just as fun, sexy, and naughty as I am. We can then spend time getting to know each other better, and having lots of fun while doing so.

I like to do sexy and kinky things to the small percentage of attractive women who enjoy them, and are free enough to act upon those desires. I believe in living out your fantasies, sexual or otherwise. If you have a naughty dream, don't tell me about it unless you really want to make it happen. Your role will also be to assist in living out mine, of course. I never run out of bad ideas. ;-)

Outside of the sexual realm, I am moderately intelligent, moderately witty, moderately funny.

Might I add I only hurt the willing...and you have to ask nicely. ;-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and being genuinely engaged... facilitating engaging dialogue... being a friend... my vices... really lots of stuff. I'm also not so good at even more stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
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... are my open-mindedness, uninhibitedness, affable nature, clever wit, and chivalrous charm (at least that's what I'm telling you).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Ahh, well books would be a super-long list, because you'll never find me without one...

Feel free to chat me up about books. I would love to discuss favorites and current reads with you.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(no hierarchy)
Craft beer
The occasional (once every month or two) cigar
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Up for anything
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My friends would be shocked if they knew about the kinky side of me. I am very much a gentleman in public. I only get kinky behind closed doors.
You should message me if
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You're sexy/intelligent/ballsy/strange/cutesy/talented/funny/laughy/adventurous. Attractiveness matters, sure, but it's the personality that seals the deal.

I highly value honesty, straight forwardness, passion, and an open mind.

Weakness for girls with talent/skill. I love to learn, and I will extract all information from your brain should you be well versed or skilled in something that I am not :)

Feel like you fit the bill? Hit me up.

Don't be shy :) I'm super nice.