Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! So, do I wear glasses? Check. Can stand to lose (quite) a few
pounds? Check. (Working on it! Just joined Planet Fitness!) Love
reading? I have a 2nd bedroom I use as a library, lots of books and
comics. Been married? Not yet, have come close though! Never a
problem of meeting women, just not the Right One (yet). Fan of Dr.
Who, Neil Gaiman, Kaiju, etc. I love all kinds of music, all types
of films (from Hollywood to Bollywood), travel, DANCING! Penn State
English Lit. Graduate. If you know Myers-Briggs, I'm an INFP. If
you want know more, write me!
I think I should add this - - - I do want kids, but not necessarily
biologically mine. I'd be happy as a stepdad, very supportive of
- Communication is the tool, but what we all really want is
understanding and acceptance.
- If we had the chance to know all the people we THINK we want to
meet, we'd be horribly disappointed! So never feel too bad when
someone doesn't reply to you.
- Uncompromising ideals are good only up to a point, and ultimately
they limit you in shrinking boxes, i.e., the U.S. Congress.
-Take Chances!! Talk with people you didn't think you'd want to
talk to. Let yourself be open to surprises!! Give people chances to
- The 1980's was the best decade for music EVER!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"Looking for love, in all the wrong places, looking for love, in
too many faces" . . . Oh, I do have a 9-to-5-ish type desk job with
benefits, personal days, etc. and my own apartment!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- I like making lists! Lists are fun! Lists are good!!
- I like to think I have talent writing. I have the deepest love
for all types of stories, from real life, from everyone's
imagination, from what pops up in my head.
- I can be very empathetic. I feel your pain! - - -but I'm not into
that, no judgment if you are!
- I enjoy listening to people, and somehow all the drunks and crazy
people seem to know it too when they sit next to me on the
- I know lots of stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Could it be my 'joi de vivre,' or my insuscient 'je m'en fous'
("OOOOHHHH!!!"), or my bubbly creme brulee?
Maybe it's my XXXL size (if you want to get me a shirt), my
glasses, and my 'come hither' stare.
Some people never notice my sarcasm, which is hysterical in its own
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
favorite movie - Casablanca
favorite movie musical - Singin' in the Rain
favorite new musical - I haven't seen "The Book of Mormon", but I
hear it's great!
favorite cookie - Oreos
favorite song to dance to - Stone Roses
, "Fool's Gold"
favorite actor to play The Doctor
Tom Baker, Matt Smith coming out of nowhere for 2nd
favorite classic Hollywood Stars - Fred Astaire
, Jimmy Cagney
, Barbara Stanwyck
favorite current stars - Denzel Washington
, Robert Downey,
, Angelina Jolie
, Halle Berry
, Milla Jovovich
, Sha Rukh Khan
favorite rapper (old school) - Rakim
favorite rappers (new school) - Eminem
, and Kanye West
- - - I just don't get
favorie mixed drink - 1/2 Dr. Pepper, 1/2 Sprite
favorite ending to a Will Smith movie - Enemy of the State
favorite recently read book - I Am Not A Serial
, almost like "Dexter", but not.
favorite travel experience - seeing the gardens of Versailles
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
help my workday flow by.
2. My laptop!! I want to hold it and pet it and hug it and . .
videos on Sundays!
4. My Glasses
5. The BEST chicken falafel sandwiches in the WORLD, from that
Greek street vendor in Center City.
6. Something to read!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
MORE LISTS!!! Like, THE TOP 7 THINGS I'D LIKE TO DO ON A DATE. (For
the joke impaired, * will indicate a joke, meaning please do not
take this seriously, I am not a deviant; ** means sort of a joke,
containing some truth but not to be taken literally.)
7.** Sit across from you, swooning in the glory of your
5. Going to the movies.
4.* Making a 'movie', if you know what I mean!! Ahhhs Yeah!!
3.** Going to see some earnest, indie, folky
- - Wait, that would ANNOY me on a date, sorry!!
2. Recreating the spaghetti eating scene from 'Lady
and the Tramp'.
1.* Just being someplace quiet, talking, getting to know
someone - - - HAhahahaha!!! No, GETTIN' IT ON!!!! Yeah
Slightly more seriously, I think a LOT about story ideas, is
science leading us closer to, not away from, God, and what would an
album of a soul/gospel choir singing rock songs sound like? (The
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, listening to Nerdist podcasts, Doctor Who podcasts, and
commenting on podcasts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think women who let their hair go gray but still keep it long and
stylish (i.e., Emmylou Harris) are HOT! (I'm serious!) Actually,
this goes for any women who are secure enough to have any kind of
color for their hair, from cotton candy pink to deep purple!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking for friends and think I would qualify. Not just to
write, but interact with in real life! If you are female,
open-minded, love to dance, laugh at me and/or yourself, and are
not allergic to cat fur, definitely! If you are all the above, wear
glasses, and have some type of accent (domestic or imported), and
have an Amy Sedaris kind of cool, what's taking you so long!??!
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