I am a single 36 yr old living in Tacoma... I have brown hair which I keep short... I usually cut my hair every 2 to 3 weeks... I was in the Army for several years & it is habit to keep it short I also tend to wear hats a lot more now than before I joined the Army... I have blue eyes which many say are my best feature... I am a little over 6 foot & weigh 245-250... I am not fat by any means but, I am not a skeleton either... I have a muscular build but, my abs need work... A lot of my weight is in muscle mass.. I have always been very active in sports & have built up some pretty big leg muscles as well as some pretty big arms...I am still working on getting my abs back into the shape they used to be but, it is not an over night fix... I hope that you can see past that & know that it is not from laziness it is from when I broke my back & had several other injuries from being hit by a car as a pedestrian... That is a long story but, feel free to ask me about it if you want to know more... I can be a Smart Ass at times but as I like to say Better to be a Smart ass than a Dumb Ass LOL... I can be serious as well & try to know when to be serious but, sometimes I may not... I do not drink but, am not a prude so I don't mind if a woman drinks... It is a choice I made & not because I was ever a alcoholic or anything of the sort... I do not smoke & can't be around smokers for prolonged amounts of time due to getting bronchitis really bad from secondhand smoke exposure... I do not do drugs & would prefer to not be around those who do... I am not a Health nut by any means I just choose to live substance free... Feel free to ask me anything else you want to know...

I am here looking to find women who want to go out & have fun & if a relationship develops that is great & if a friendship develops that is OK too... I know I am not perfect & I don't seek perfection either... What I do want is a woman who is going to be honest with me & not say what they think I want to hear... Don't lead me on to think that there is more than there is... if we are destined to be nothing but, friends or if you don't even want that just tell me... Sure rejection SUX but, being lied to SUX more...

As far as what type of women I usually go for... I don't have a specific type but, I am not attracted to BBW or More to Love or however you want to call it... Don't get mad at me, & I won't appologize for it, or because of it... It is just not my thing... Everyone has different things they find attractive & it is important for there to be some attraction for any relationship to work... I am not necessarily looking for a model either... I like a girl with some curves but, tend to lean more towards petite women... I don't mind a woman with kids & age isn't a huge factor...

"I am strong and weak. I am independent and needy. I am beautiful and ugly. I am distinct and blended. I am honest yet have lied. I need love and love my own space. I am shy and very outgoing. I am loving and distant. I am polite and rude. I am wanting and very satisfied. I am loved and unloved. I miss my past and want my future. I am wise and foolish. I bring tears and I bring laughter. I hold on tight and I let go. I am strong willed and I give in. I am good enough and not good enough. I am right and I am wrong. I see through and I can be blind. When hope is lost I have hope left to find. I am a best friend and I am a worst enemy. I want to forgive and won't ever be forgiven. I am sorry but glad it happened. I want to be happy and to remember what made me sad. I want to smile and cry all at once. I want to fly but I'm afraid to fall. I want to be great and remember where I started from. I am giving and I am greedy. I am selfish and I would give you my life. I am caring and I am unconcerned. I will lead the way and get lost. I am proud and ashamed. I am a human being. I am not perfect. I have faults and I have greatness. I have strength and weakness. I have done great things and things I wish I could go back and change. I am just me.?"

I am living my life as it comes...

Being myself LOL... Sketching... Word games... lots & lots of stuff... I am a Jack-of-many trades...

My eyes...

Lord Of the Rings books & movies... I am a bit eclectic in my taste in Music & movies... I am a bit of a picky eater... not big on most vegetables & don't do spicy...

Brain
Heart
Air
Water
Food
Companionship

Everything... my mind is usually moving at a million miles an hour...

Home relaxing...

I am not perfect LOL...

You are not too serious... I am a Smartass... but, better to be a smartass than a dumbass... LOL...

You are not some weirdo psycho stalker or freak... Ok freak may be OK LOL... Just not Psycho freaky LOL...

You are smart enough to hold a decent conversation...